Need a serious hand hold

[BeyondHope]

I have my dating scan tomorrow at 1.30pm and the panic is beginning to overwhelm me.

I have had 5 miscarriages and a tfmr at 23 weeks last Christmas. I have heard “there is no heartbeat” more times than I can remember.

My last pregnancy started to go wrong at the 12 week scan. Problems were picked up and it was another 10 weeks of specialists and scans and appointments before we made the decision to end the pregnancy. I cannot bare to be told bad news tomorrow. I honestly do not know how I will cope.

Not really sure what I am asking. Just in need of support.

Good luck

I've been there and felt the panic. I hope you get a happy ending.

That's so tough, no wonder you're anxious Are going to the scan with anyone?

Just want to say thinking of you and I am sorry you have had to to through everything that you have already. Try and keep positive, I have felt the fear before all my scans even with none of the history you are carrying with you. Sending happy, Good luck vibes...let us know how you get on x

Thanks everyone.

sleepwarrior I am going with my husband.

I was offered scans every 2 weeks with my history but turned them down with the logic that I’ve had good scans before and then it just goes wrong anyway. It’s helped me to try and zone it all out but now tomorrow is looming it’s bringing all the anxiety to the surface.

I'm so sorry for what you've been through. I too understand the terror. I had a tfmr in October 2016 and had had previous losses. It was at our 12 week scan that the issues that led to the tfmr were first picked up. I've since had a successful pregnancy and was anxious all the way through. I had 2 weekly scans and was extremely nervous ahead of each one. We had genetic testing after the tfmr although I fell pregnant before we got the results. The tests helped a small amount but the fear never really left me. I guess I'm trying to say that what you're feeling seems completely normal and natural to me but that a successful pregnancy is absolutely possible. Hoping all will be ok for you x

Wishing you all the best for tomorrow OP

I'm so sorry for your previous losses OP, I hope tomorrow brings good news

Another hand to hold

wishing you all the best, you'll be in my thoughts tomorrow

Sending you kind thoughts and my very best wishes

All the best for tomorrow

Wishing you all the luck 🍀🍀🍀

Good luck tomorrow 🙏🏾

Oh your story of hope has given me some tears welsh I am so glad you got your baby.

Thank you so so much to everyone who has replied. I hope all these positive thoughts help me tomorrow and I will definitely update you all.

Wishing you the best tomorrow, OP

Thoughts are with you for tomorrow. Wishing you the best!

Handhold thinking of you today

Thinking of you op hope all goes well today!

Good luck today OP.

Thinking of you today!

Hope all goes well for you today

Thinking of you x

Just wanted to update you all.

After an actual panic attack on the scan table we have a healthy baby!!!! Everything looks ok and I am measuring a few days ahead. 2.5 years to get here. I can’t believe it. Thank you so so much for all your kind words. I pray this is my rainbow baby.

I've been checking this post all day @BeyondHope. So happy for you, congratulations