I am 22 weeks pregnant and have consultant led care as am over 40, it's an IVF pregnancy, and will be a c-section (3rd child after 2 precious sections). In previous pregnancies I did not have consultant led care, so just curious to know if the experience I had last week at my first appointment with the "consultant" is normal.
My appointment with the consultant (let's call him Mr Jones) was at 1.55. I arrived at 1.50. About 2.20 Mr Jones ambled (from outside the clinic) into the waiting area (recognised him from photo) and went into a room. A while later a patient was called for him. About 2.45 a different man called me. He simply introduced himself as "I'm Peter, Mr Jones has asked me to see you." Did not say whether he was a doctor, nurse, or whatever. I assume he was a registrar but who knows?
Peter did not have the best command of English and seemed quite unsure of what he was doing. He measured fundal height and tried to find baby's heartbeat with the Doppler. He couldn't find it. I could feel her moving so wasn't worried, but it took him about 10 minutes eventually to find it. At midwife appts since 16 weeks, she's done it in less than 1 minute each time. He got quite confused about fundal height because despite me taking my notes with me, and my notes having EDD in them, someone had put a piece of paper on front of notes saying I was 24 weeks (I was 21).
Then Peter went "to speak to my senior". Came back and told me to book for a growth scan at 28 weeks. That was the end of the appointment. Nothing happened that the midwife could not have done in a 5 minute appointment. I did not see the consultant my appointment was supposed to be with, with no explanation of why not and no explanation of who the person I did see was. My notes were wrongly labelled. The whole experience felt completely disorganised from start to finish.
Is this normal? AIBU to think that if I have an appointment to see "Mr Jones", I should see Mr Jones? Will I ever see a consultant during my "consultant-led care" or can I expect the same thing at my next appointment?