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Pregnant after missed miscarriage

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Womanvslife · 24/09/2018 14:54

First time posting so please be gentle :)

We had a missed miscarriage at the start of the year, we went to the 12 week scan only to be told there was no heartbeat and the baby had only grew to 9 weeks so we opted to have the d&c. I can honestly say it was one of the worst moments in our lives...

Now we are finally pregnant again at 5 weeks but i am terrified it is going to happen again, i keep reading that two or more miscarriages in a row are very rare (like 2%) but i just have this feeling...

I really need to hear some success stories from people who have been in the same position please?

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Hoppinggreen · 24/09/2018 14:58

I’m sorry for your loss
I had a Mmc with surgical intervention at 12 weeks. I then got pg a week later before my periods returned so was basically pg for a whole year!
It was psychologically hard but she’s 13 now and awesome, I also have a 9 year old DS
Best of luck OP x

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Womanvslife · 24/09/2018 15:29

Thank you Hoppinggreen :) You post really does give me hope.... I know i need to look at this as a new pregnancy but its just hard at the min.

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xJune88 · 24/09/2018 16:29

Totally understand what you mean! I'm currently on my third pregnancy after 2 losses one at 7 weeks and one at 14 mms but baby died at 9. Now 6+4 and petrified something is going to go wrong. All you can think and believe is this is a new pregnancy and try to relax xxx

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Womanvslife · 24/09/2018 18:06

xJune88 I am so sorry to hear that, I honestly wish you all the luck in the world and I hope this one is your time xxxx

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OutPinked · 24/09/2018 19:01

I was sadly in the same position at the 12 week scan twice last year and needed two D&C’s so I know the pain that brings. I’m currently 34 weeks with a healthy little boy though so it can work out in the end and I hope it does for you Flowers.

xJune88 · 24/09/2018 20:53

Thankyou hope it works for us all. It's lovely to hear a positive story. I do feel more positive but there's still something in my head saying it won't work x

Wolfiefan · 24/09/2018 20:55

My first was a MMC and I had the ERPC. It was horrid. I understand the sense of disbelief that a pregnancy could end in an actual baby. My second pregnancy did. Good luck OP.

coffeekittens · 24/09/2018 20:57

Im so sorry for your loss Flowers I’m 19 weeks pregnant after a MMC in April, I waited for my first period and conceived in the June. It has been and still is very nerve wracking, early reassurance scans helped me a lot, I had 2 at my hospital and paid for 2 privately. Congratulations on your pregnancy.

muddlingalong42 · 24/09/2018 20:58

I had a missed miscarriage in autumn 2014 and had D&C plus a further op as they didn't get everything out first time (horrendous time generally). I got pregnant again a couple of months later and DS has just had his third birthday!! I was extremely apprehensive in early pregnancy and paid for an early private scan at 9 weeks, as couldn't bear to
Wait for the 12 week scan at my local hospital and have all those memories coming back. I know exactly what you are going through, but there are happy endings!

Ktay · 24/09/2018 21:04

Like you say, you are much more likely to have a successful pregnancy than another miscarriage but those first few weeks before the scan are really worrying. Anyway, just checking in with another success story, DD2 is 6 now and was worth the wait. All the best for a lovely smooth pregnancy.

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Womanvslife · 24/09/2018 21:51

Thank you all for you positive replies, it really helps. We have been considering early scans so it's good to hear that it does help ease some worry Grin I am so sorry to all of you for what you have each been through Flowers

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RedWineAllMine · 24/09/2018 23:35

You want positivity you've got it.... 5 miscarriages in a row, currently 25+2 with a keeper!
Feeling him kick every day reminds me of how lucky I am.
I don't know how many heartbreak losses we have to go through to finally get a keeper but best advice I can give is to stay positive, and keep on trying and trying again until you get a keeper. Because one of your pregnancies will be successful, I just can't say which unfortunately. Thinking of you.

Breen86 · 25/09/2018 20:54

I'm so so very sorry for your loss. I know it's a really tough time to go through. We had the same thing, actually turned out to be a molar pregnancy. Then got pregnant and had our lovely Odhran, he is now 18 months. It's hard not to worry. I'm 7 weeks now and worrying too. Sending positive vibes your way. Xx

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