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Going off dp

4 replies

cactusplant · 20/09/2018 12:10

Has anybody else gone off their other half during pregnancy.
I love him to pieces and my sex drive has gone up but I don't want to have sex with him (penatrative) , in fact I don't want him to touch me at all he seems to just be winding me up.
I love him to bits, tell me it's just temporary

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CobaltRose · 20/09/2018 17:50

I know exactly how you feel! I'm 15+5 and have completely gone off my partner too. My sex drive is non existent (haven't had sex since I found out I was pregnant) and I can't stand being touched. He also irritates me a lot.

It's temporary. With my last pregnancy (which sadly ended in miscarriage) I was the same. But within a few days of my miscarriage my love (and lust!) for him returned. But right now I can't really stand him a lot of the time! I still love him but he does my head in! Grin

Yakadee · 20/09/2018 20:32

There with you on the sex drive thing, totally none existent. I love my husband to death but it's just not on my mind at all. X

cleopatracomingatya · 20/09/2018 23:25

Yup! I go up and down. 1 day I can't get enough of him then the next I just would rather be alone - and then I feel terribly guilty as he is so bloody amazing.

I'm putting it down to hormones and impending baby arrival stress haha

MsHopey · 21/09/2018 07:03

No sex drive at all.
I don't think it changed much with my first pregnancy.
But I'm never in the mood with this one. I also run after a 14mo DS all day and have the first trimester exhaustion.
Sex is really the last thing on my mind.
I'm also a bit hormonal and things we used to do to turn each other on when we are apart (sexting and stuff) has just made me irritable and pissed off.

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