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How can I decide whether to have an abortion or a baby?

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lovma · 20/09/2018 00:42

Hi, I’m 19, at first year of uni, just found out I’m about 6 weeks pregnant. Me and boyfriend broke up due of toxic and abusive relationship, however, I know that he would want to keep the baby. I would definitely do it as well, even of my age and uni, I would take a break from uni and still do it!! The only thing is him. I’m not sure if I could be with him again. Maybe he would change, my parents hate him. He was so bad to me. I literally don’t know what to do, I’ve been through so much in my life, was diagnosed with depression, I feel like maybe all of this happened for a reason. At the same time I feel like I’m only 19, and who knows maybe one day I would meet the man of my life and make a happy family. I also don’t know how I would feel after abortion, how to live with a thought that your life could be 100% different at this time, that you could have a baby. I’m so lost and don’t really have anyone to talk about it. At first I was about 90% sure I will don’t keep the baby, but now everything reminds me of it and I’m starting to thinking about everything

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BertrandRussell · 20/09/2018 09:45

OP- do you have good relationships with your family?

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