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Possibly unreadable but still happening VENT at DH

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Peachy92 · 16/09/2018 13:06

Fuming this weekend for one very simple reason. I've heard the rumour that you can suddenly become extremely horny whilst pregnant. Turns out it's NOT a myth after all! Friday rolled around and I felt like the sexiest woman in the world and would have been / done / worn anything for my DH. Messaging hubby from work expressing I couldn't wait to get home to him etc. He went out... with his friends for a drink and asked me to pick him up. Not an issue... until 1am where I still hear NOTHING from him and he stumbles in out of his head. Saturday was a write off as he was "recovering" and today's he's just slept in until the afternoon. Can't explain how upset I feel let alone frustrated and unwanted. I've been as sexy as I can all week topping up my makeup shaving trying to look as good as possible and all it got me was a spotty face, messy house I now get to spend Sunday cleaning, and 1 shit quickie where I didn't get mine because he went like a rocket. Vent over I guess.

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Stephisaur · 16/09/2018 13:39

Oh I feel for you! That sounds incredibly frustrating :(

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 16/09/2018 13:41

Oh that's bad. Very selfish of him, I do feel for you!

Peachy92 · 16/09/2018 13:46

Think it's worse because I've had nearly no sex drive and felt really ugly since I've been pg and he keeps saying he's looking forward to the second trimester for the hormones to kick in! So come 22 weeks when it finally does and that's how he reacted I feel kinda silly and embarrassed and today I actually feel queasy and crap so I guess I've missed it this weekend :(

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Peachy92 · 16/09/2018 13:47

Sorry and thank you for your replies! I do appreciate it. Was feeling very sorry for myself! x

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Stephisaur · 16/09/2018 14:11

@peachy92 sometimes if I’m really in the mood, I have to be the one to initiate. I hate feeling like I’m forcing myself on him, but otherwise he’s fairly clueless. Not helpful for you now, but if it happens again you might just have to say “I need sex and I need it now”!

QueenOfMyWorld · 16/09/2018 14:12

My vibrator was my best friend during pregnancy! Dh worked away in the week for 3 months.I was horny all the way through even when ds was born.It didn't calm down for a few months Blush

Peachy92 · 16/09/2018 14:16

@QueenOfMyWorld excellent thank you! that gives me hope! 😁I just didn't want to do a lone one this time :/ I felt like being sexy for him and feeling his response. I guess craving the affection not just the climax! He's trying to be more loving today but I'm feeling grumpy with him I can't flip a switch inside like I want to but maybe it'll kick back in later 👀🤞🏻🙏🏻🤣

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QueenOfMyWorld · 16/09/2018 14:42

😁

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