Hi there 
I moved from Germany to the UK about 6 months ago, to finally live with my partner of 4 years. I unfortunately was having a few health issues since then and found out first hand how different the NHS works from the German system I was used to. My partner never sees a doctor whatsover, and if he had told me how it all works here in more detail before, I might have thought about it all more thoroughly perhaps.
For example it seems I am having to go to my GP in UK for everything first. Whether I want to see an OB/Gyn or ENT. Its a walk to your GP first, who either refers you or not.
I am for example having a persisting throat and ear pain since months. After 2 unsuccessful treatment ideas at my GP over the last few months, he then finally decided I should see an Ear-Nose-Throat specialist doctor. So my GPs office contacts the ENT, which then will sent out an appointment letter to me. All this procedure, the getting in touch with an ENT via my GP already took about 2-3 weeks... and finally I got that letter and know when my ENT appointment will be: in March 2019!!
Of course I am comparing this procedure to Germany, where I am used to just calling an ENT directly, which could be any ENT I want to be seen by, and often have an appointment right the next day or a few days later. So currently I am wondering if perhaps I was better off going for private Health Insurance here in UK. And whether that actually is so much better and quicker and less hassle?
I am still getting used to how some things work differently here, so I was hoping to perhaps get some info and help of you, to not have to sort this matter out in my head all by myself and get it wrong.
Maybe some of you could even recommend an Insurance, that also covers well for everything related to Pregnancy? As we are thinking about having a baby within the next 1-2 years, I think I would feel a lot less anxious and better cared for and secure, if I didnt have to rely on the NHS for everything and could go have check ups more often. I heard that with the NHS you dont get as many scans or tests and often you can not even find an NHS midwife. I think that must feel very lonely and scary.
I havent had children myself yet, but my sister in Germany just had her second, and seems to have had a wonderful support with the German health Care system there, with regular scans, tests and direct Contact with OB/Gyn and a midwife she could call 24/7. When the due date arrived, she could even chose which hospital she would want to go to, she ended up in one where they had a birth pool, armoatherapy, accupuncture and so on, to help her relax. And that was a normal standard hospital in Germany, nothing private or extra costs at all, and all covered by her Government Health Insurance.
So I wondered if a similar support and service like in Germany could be achieved here in UK if I go private? And if yes, which Insurance would you recommend, as there are so many out there?
Thanks in advance for any help 