After loosing my virginity after having unprotected sex, could I be bleeding 3days later and be pregnant

[kenziatchley]

Hi I'm 16 years old and Idk if I'm pregnant or not!? After me and my boyfriend did it, 3days later I started have spotting and it'll go away for a little bit but comes back but than it got heavier. It's been almost 4weeks and I token a bunch of test and they came back negative but one of them was kinda faded where the + sign is supposed to be.

When was your last test?

Might be worth a GP visit.

My last test was today and the one that looked faded was Saturday

It id highly unlikely, but I can understand why you are worried. The spotting could be caused by you losing your virginity and certainly wouldn't point to a pregnancy.

I think the best thing for you to do is visit the family planning clinic. They will reassure you and they will also sort out your future contraceptive needs. Don't have unprotected sex again until you have seen them. It will be in complete confidence, you won't need to tell your parents.

Why are you having unprotected sex?!

Surely you know that sex = babies.
Have you been to your GP about contraception? If not, when do you plan on going?
Do you want a baby at 16? Because if not that's what's about to happen if you carry on.

If you took a test yesterday & it was negative I think you've got lucky this time. Get a GP appt & get your contraception sorted. You will not be this lucky next time.

Please use contraception.

If you have had lots of negative tests, you’re most likely not pregnant. It’s normal to bleed and spot after losing your virginity.

It's not worth the anxiety. Get yourself on the pill and buy some condoms. Then you can enjoy yourself without the stress. Xx

Sounds like you were not engaged and excited enough. And you have grazing.
Go see the doctor, as for a female one.
Also maybe don't have sex for a while to help you heal.

This happened to me op. I was bleeding for a few days because my hymen was torn. That was what was bleeding. But go to yr doctors to get a proper check up

Did you choose to have sex, OP? Did he pressure you in any way to 'give in' to his desire?

Was it nice? Did you enjoy it?

I hope you are ok. There will be a sexual health clinic in your area. They run separately to your GP service. Entirely confidential and all experts in their field. There will be no judgement from anyone there. Plus, they will have free condoms to give you.

Please use condoms OP, you need to protect yourself from sexual diseases as well as unwanted pregnancy.

If he doesn't want to use condoms, don't have sex with him.

Please take care of and enjoy yourself.