Hi,
our first baby's due at the beginning of March and I'd like to go for shared parental leave for me and DP. He is employed full-time by the NHS, but I'm a writer registered as self-employed sole trader. I never get paid a wage, but instead an advance on my work by publishers, out of which lump sum I 'pay' myself the same monthly amount as my partner gets from his salaried job. I pay NI contributions and tax.
If I can sell another book before the baby comes (this is the plan), I won't need maternity leave; I'll have the money anyway and can give all the shared leave to my partner instead so he could be home with us.
I'm slightly at sea in terms of who I need to tell about my initial maternity leave, and whether my earnings are well-enough documented to claim parental leave, eg I can't prove that I've worked at least 26 weeks this year because my job doesn't work that way. Are my NI contributions enough evidence?
I also don't know if it's a bit cheeky to allocate all the parental leave to my partner when I'd really be home all the time anyway. It would be great to start writing again quick-ish, but I want to be realistic about how likely that really is with a new baby.