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Tell DH about bfp?

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ApplestheHare · 30/08/2018 17:00

We've been trying for a while and I got a bfp today but I'm not sure whether to tell DH. It's been a year since I had a MMC (with no pregnancy since) so I'm feeling pretty stunned. I'm also wondering whether I should leave it a couple of weeks until I can have an early scan to save him worrying in the meantime. He's been pretty stressed over the past few weeks with work and realistically won't be able to do anything to help me as such for a while anyway. I can't quite decide if he'll want to know so he can plan or whether he'll want to stick his head in the sand...! I can't even think of an unrelated question I can ask to judge his mood to help me make the decision Confused

P.s. I'm making our communication sound awful. It isn't but my brain just isn't working properly today.

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DannyWallace · 30/08/2018 17:04

If I'm honest my DH would be devastated if I kept something like that from him for a few weeks. And also that he missed a scan.
You are there to support each other through the good times and bad. Not just that you have to look after him. Think about yourself too. Maybe chatting about it with him will keep you both calm until an early scan is possible.
Sorry to hear about your miscarriage ❤️.

ApplestheHare · 30/08/2018 19:22

Thanks DannyWallace, you'll be pleased to know I blurted it out over dinner. He was happy to be told Smile

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DannyWallace · 30/08/2018 19:46

Yeay! So glad ❤️❤️

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