Is it really necessary to do a pregnancy test?

[Timeforanothernewone]

Someone tell me there's no need ..

Eldest is 19m, youngest 7m and ebf (obviously solids, but no formula milk).

I haven't yet had a period but DH and I, for the first time since ds2, DTD on Friday.

Cue cramping and that niggling feeling of indigestion this morning after my toast.

I started symptoms early with both pregnancies but still... Seriously.

This is a major fuck up. DH starts uni in sept as well as working full time. We'll be blessed if I am pregnant but it might just kill me.

For me, my ideal would be when the youngest turns two.

I disagree that DH and I need to work on our relationship. We're just busy. He's just put toddler to bed. I'm putting baby to bed. Now he's going to study for a couple of hours and I'll tidy up (and chill). Then around 9/9.30 one of us will think about dinner. We'll cook, eat, stack dishwasher and possibly watch half hour of telly. Then bed around 10 as I'm still up with ds2 about four times a night and DH leaves for work just after six. THEN in sept I start work evenings. Lack of sex is pretty much just an opportunity thing but we're ok with that as we know it'll change very quickly

And ok, too early now but I had clear symptoms with ds1 around 7dpo

Thanks to this thread I've booked an appointment with the gp to discuss some minor gyne issues. Thankyou!