I packed my changing bag for the baby which included:
3 bodysuits,
3 sleepsuits,
2 hats,
water wipes,
cotton wool,
8 nappies,
nappy bags,
starter pack of formula milk,
Blanket
When packing my bag I seperated everything into separate zip lock bags. That came in handy for when my husband needed to dress dc (I was being prepped for surgery post birth) I was able to tell him where everything was e.g.there was a small bag which had a hat, sleepsuit and bodysuit in with a nappy so he was able to just take that out and dress dc. I had packed three similar parcels. I understand this sounds a bit over organised but it helped him and myself in a stressful situation.
I took a small backpack with my things. Off top of my head these included:
Large mens t shirt for labouring in
Pjs for post birth,
Set of comfortable clothes to return home in (leggings, t shirt, thin cardigan),
Toiletries in small zip lock bag (things for myself and husband)
T shirt for husband,
Camping towel and it packed up every small,
Dressing gown,
Flipflops,
Phone charger,
Like I did with the baby bag I also separated the things in my backpack for things I would need in labour and things for the ward
Remember a snack bag (ours was a shopping bag) !!! I came out if surgery at midnight after arriving at hospital at 8 in the morning and I was starving. The snack bag saved me that first night. I took isotonic sport drinks (4 of these but next time I would take a few more, cereal bars, breakfast buscuits and mini chedders)
Sorry for long post. Hope it helps you