Break up while pregnant. Can’t eat/ sleep

[Cakery]

Basically my partners left me a week ago. I hoped he’d come home by now- he came over yesterday and said he needs more time to think.
I think he’s done.
I already have a little boy who’s 3.5 and I’m 27 weeks pregnant so this is my partners first baby.
He’s asked me to give him space but I just feel awful.
I have no appetite I can’t concentrate on anything I’m terrified and I’ve lost 6lb this week.
We’ve just been having little bickers and he’s said he isn’t happy- I’ve asked him to try and I know we can sort but I just feel so sad that he’s said he needs more time to think.
How do I get through this

How awful! Are you ok? Silly question.. did you know the break up was coming what's his reason? I feel terrible for you xx

Cakery so sorry

Here to listen if you want to vent/chat

We just basically had an argument Sunday and he left. Didn’t know it was coming etc. I don’t know how I’m going to get through this.
I hoped he would come for a chat yesterday and say he would come home and try- he basically said he’s not been happy and he needs time to think about what I’ve said. I just can’t see him changing his mind.
Feel alone and like I can’t do anything about it. My mum passed away when I was pregnant last time- I don’t want to tell my dad incase he thinks badly of him. I’m 25 and actually cried today cause I want my mum

The baby will be fine, maybe try and eat some fruit or something really light.

Sorry about your mum, I really feel for you. You will get through this though, whatever happens. You should talk to your dad though.

What a dick!!! He does know that it's perfectly normal not to be totally over the moon in love at all times in a relationship?? Presumably you were in a happy relationship when this baby was conceived a few short months ago?

He's an immature little child. It doesn't sound like he's worth fighting for if he won't fight too.

So forget about that prick. It's tough, but go into survival mode - good is a priority. That and your son. Take care of you. Be kind to yourself. Get support from your dad (who cares what he thinks of a man who leaves his pregnant girlfriend after a bit of bickering??). Prioritise you!!!

I lost my mum at 18.

It does get better x