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2 miscarriages this year and pregnant again. Very nervous

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Dancer31 · 15/08/2018 18:45

Hi all

We have been through 2 miscarriages this year and have found out we are pregnant again 😄
We are both thrilled to be expecting but I can’t stop thinking that I will miscarry again. Has anyone been in a similar position and been 3rd time lucky? X

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SaturdaySauv · 24/08/2018 17:47

Ah amazing! Flowers yeah- very easy to be a few days out with early scans.

JaneY28 · 24/08/2018 18:45

I apologise it was 200 I miswrote it hope that’s still good x

Dancer31 · 25/08/2018 16:40

In my book 4 weeks says HCG between 5-426 so I would say 200 is fine as your in the middle.
I completely understand your nerves. Has the bleeding/spotting stopped now? X

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Jay92 · 31/08/2018 16:08

Hi
We are trying for third time lucky at the minute!! I had a miscarriage last June and a ? Ectopic/Miscarriage in April. Love to here some stories about it being third time lucky :)

Dancer31 · 02/09/2018 07:54

I’ve had 2 miscarriages this year.
Am currently pregnant for the 3rd time. Have another early scan booked in for next Friday as I’m so nervous about loosing this one also.
Fingers crossed for you. X

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Jay92 · 02/09/2018 08:06

Ahhh fingers crossed for you too! Third time lucky for us I hope!!! X

Jay92 · 09/09/2018 13:40

@Dancer31 how was scan? Hope all well x

Dancer31 · 09/09/2018 14:11

Yes all good thank you.
Was measuring 8 weeks + 1 which ties in with what I was 2 weeks ago. Just trying to remain positive. How are you doing @Jay92 x

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xJune88 · 09/09/2018 14:15

Congratulations on your healthy pregnancy! Prayers it stays that way xx

I find myself in the same boat loss at 7 weeks in Jan, loss at 14 in June although they think baby died around 9 mmc, pregnant again think I'm 4 weeks and I'm shitting myself. Clearblue still says 1-2 So I'm already worrying wonky cycles don't help with reassurance either!

Jay92 · 09/09/2018 14:35

Aww @Dancer31 isn't that great. We are trying at the minute. Fingers crossed, two wee breaks away so hopefully that will help!! X

antipodeanjo · 09/09/2018 14:40

All the best @Dancer31. I had a miscarriage in Oct last year and again over Christmas, but am 28 weeks pregnant now. That first trimester is very stressful after a loss, more so after 2 losses, so I am thinking o

antipodeanjo · 09/09/2018 14:41

Opps, posted too early, sorry! Was just saying that I am thinking of you. Thanks

Dancer31 · 09/09/2018 15:33

Thank you all.
You spend all these years trying not to get pregnant and now you pray to get/stay pregnant.
@xJune88 I have my fingers crossed for you. I was addicted to the clearblue tests until I got to 3+.
I found my dates were out by a week, I think it is down to my previous miscarriages messing my ovulation up. Try not to worry too much. Will your local hospital give you an early scan?
@antipodeanjo that’s such reassurance to hear you are now 28 weeks with your rainbow baby. X

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xJune88 · 09/09/2018 15:51

I'm going to ask midwife when I go for booking but not doing anything until I get over 7 weeks. What will be will be I suppose whether I have a scan or not x

Dancer31 · 22/09/2018 07:46

@xJune88
How are you doing? When is your booking appointment with your midwife. Have you been able to ask for an early scan yet?

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