Last week DH and I went to see the midwife and were told that my fundal height was measuring 40/41 at 36 weeks pregnant.
We told her that at our 33 week appointment another midwife told us we were measuring at 37 weeks & we knew baby was a big boy. The midwife said that the other lady had not noted this down (she noted that I was 34cm!). Turns out the first midwife should have referred me to hospital and hadn’t. So the second midwife made us attend a growth scan, we had the appointment yesterday. The sonographer commented on how large I was looking (as most people do) and we were joking about our wee tank of a boy! The sonographers face dropped as she took the fluid measurement.
I’ve attached a photo of the graph. The fluid max AFI should be 24/25 and I’m measuring 37.
We had to see a consultant who explained that there was little to be done now and that it’s good that baby is big because he’s managing to keep himself in place. She also said he hopefully has avoided risks and that it’s remarkable I’ve got to 37 weeks pregnant. I understand that there is some give in these situations but we (especially DH) are quite shocked that something was wrong. I’d been very poorly, sore and struggling - I thought I was being a wimp for many weeks and could barely get through a day without feeling low from how difficult I was finding this pregnancy. To hear that there was an underlying reason makes me feel so numb.
I’ve been told that if I go into labour then I have to be mindful of cord prolapse and a few other problems... hopefully logic helps me out over panic when I do go into labour!
He is also back-to-back and has never been in the right position this entire pregnancy. I also understand the “wait and see” thinking but now I have severe polyhydramnios and a back to back baby with a very large head (see charts).
My husband is adamant we should press for something to happen now but I would really appreciate opinions beforehand. I don’t want to cause such a fuss and trust that all will turn out ok - am I being too soft?
Thank you in advance.