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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Bleeding at 5.5 weeks pregnant

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Raffeylou · 01/08/2018 11:42

Hey ladies, I'm currently 5w 3d pregnant at the age of 40. Hubby and I decided to start trying for DC number 2 last month and were stunned (because of my age) when I conceived first go! The symptoms started almost straight away and I tested positive at 13dpo, we were over the moon.
Last Thursday I experienced some stress at work and noticed shortly afterwards that some of my symptoms (nausea and sore boobs) had disappeared.
On Sunday night I noticed a light brown tinge on my liner but nothing when I wiped - thought nothing much of it.
Throughout Monday, I started getting a light brown tinge when I wiped as well and by lunchtime there was quite a bit of watery brown blood on the tissue. I was seen in A&E where a urine test came back positive and poking around my sides ruled out an ectopic. Other than that, there was nothing they could do as our hospital won't scan until 6 weeks - they just said go home and do as little as possible until the bleeding stopped. Impossible with a two year old when your hubby works away! They advised me to come back to A&E or call 111 if the bleeding got worse.
The bleeding tailed off shortly afterwards but was back yesterday morning, nothing on the liner but browny red blood on wiping. It gradually got heavier and redder throughout the day appearing on the pad also so I saw my GP who said there was nothing she could do but I should come back if I'm still bleeding next Monday (when I'm six weeks) and she'll organise a scan. Around lunchtime I got a bad bout of nausea for the first time in five days, this actually raised my hopes that my HCG levels were rising but at the same time there was quite a bit of red blood with the odd tiny clot when I wiped - talk about mixed signals Confused. At this point I accepted in my head that I was likely miscarrying, had a good cry and decided I may as well get on with my day rather than laying on the sofa as what was going to happen would happen regardless. The bleeding eased again yesterday evening but throughout the night I was getting plenty of pinky red watery blood when I wiped to the point where I put a tampon in.
This morning I felt a little pain for the first time, I can only describe it as a constant, swollen, sore feeling of pressure in my uterus accompanied by faint backache. The bleeding subsided then came back, still pinky red and watery. I went back to the GP and this time they took blood and will do so again on Friday to see if my HCG levels are doubling. I won't have the results until early next week but I have a bad feeling because of my boob soreness disappearing Sad. The uterine pain has almost gone now but I'm bleeding like a moderate period and swinging between optimism and despair .. Surely if I was miscarrying the bleeding would be heavier and clotty with severe pain? But at the same time, any bleeding can't be good!
Does anyone have a similar story with a positive outcome? I am trying so hard to remain hopeful but realistically I think it's game over .. Consoling myself with the fact that at least I know I can fall pregnant easily enough!

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Treaclepie19 · 04/08/2018 19:46

Not until the 14th :(
I know what you mean, it's really tough to know what to believe.
My symptoms disappeared and now they're reappearing. I'm so confused.
They won't do anything at all yet either. I'm going back on Monday because it's driving me insane.

Raffeylou · 04/08/2018 21:20

Where will you go Treaclepie? Your GP/A&E? I'm six weeks today so might see if I can get a scan on Monday via A&E, the wait for the blood results is torture and I may not get them back until Monday night :( Saying that, it might be too early to see anything on the scan anyway, argh!
On a philosophical note, reading story after heartbreaking story on these forums from ladies losing their babies after years spent ttc makes me realise how lucky I am to have one happy, healthy child .. Whatever my outcome, this whole experience has definitely made me a more grateful and empathetic person who will never again take for granted what she has!! xx

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Treaclepie19 · 04/08/2018 21:22

I'm going to go and ask my GP, then if she won't refer me I'll book a private scan.

They should scan you now if you're 6weeks. I had a scan at 6+4 with my son and saw a heartbeat. That wasn't an internal scan either.

Yeah I agree. I'm so grateful to have my son and when I miscarried before him it broke me so I must remember what I've got now.

Raffeylou · 04/08/2018 22:25

It's worth paying for a private scan for peace of mind, you can't put a price on your sanity x
Yep I had a scan at 6+5 with my son after going to A&E with abdominal pain so I know I can go down that route again if the blood results take too long!!!!

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Treaclepie19 · 04/08/2018 22:30

Yeah definitely. It's so hard isn't it?
I have my fingers crossed for you.

Rachael321 · 05/08/2018 12:23

Finally got a call back from the epu 5 hours after I spoke to someone. They said it sounded like and implantation bleed and to keep an eye on it and if it gets worse or if I'm in any pain then to call nhs24 or go to a&e if it's really bad. And they booked me in for an early scan next tuesday.
A couple of hours later the bleeding seemed worse and I had pain in my lower back that felt like it was radiating round to the front. Called nhs24 and was sent to out of hours again. Doc checked me over and seemed concerned that I had pain on my left side when she pressed (pretty hard might I add!) And said that she couldn't rule out ectopic! I was then sent to the gynaecology dept as an "emergency" to be seen by one of the doctors there. They took blood and i was examined again including internal. Didn't seem concerned about the blood I was losingand ruled the pain down to muscle and strains and tension. And again said to keep an eye on everything and to try and relax and if it gets worse or I'm concerned then call the ward or the epu or just to go in and see them. He is going to get in touch with the epu to get me in and seen to aswell.
So not really any further forward still bleeding and still very worried but I guess it's just a case of wait and see now

Thanks all for well wishes

Treaclepie19 · 05/08/2018 14:30

How stressful :(
I'm glad they're going to get you a scan. At least you should have some clarity then.

Raffeylou · 05/08/2018 15:08

Blimey Rachael what a day! At least they don't seem too concerned and you now have the option of being able to call/visit the EPU if you feel the need - I don't think I can get seen in my local EPU without a GP referral Sad. Fingers crossed your scan on Tuesday shows a healthy bub! x

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NoNarnas · 06/08/2018 08:37

Still bleeding but is lighter and brown own blood. Definitely not had enough to be a completed miscarriage so scan today will either be positive news or that it’s a retained miscarriage.

Treaclepie19 · 06/08/2018 08:39

Sorry you're still bleeding noNarnas
I hope you get good news at your scan today.

I'm off to the doctors today to see if she will refer me for a scan. We shall see. Either way I'm having one, I'm going to book one for next week if not.

Raffeylou · 06/08/2018 10:41

Praying for positive news for you today NoNarnas and Treaclepie, please keep us posted x
Sadly I have miscarried, I went to A&E this morning to see if they'd refer me to EPU for a scan but the pregnancy test they did came up negative and they could see from my blood tests last week that the HCG was over 1000 on Wednesday and had plummeted to 226 by Friday Sad. The doctor thinks I may have already expelled everything which I find hard to believe as I have passed no clots/tissue - maybe it's still to come. Or maybe I've got away with it very lightly but that's more cruel in a way; the fact I've had no pain/cramps/clots and have not bled particularly heavily or constantly raised my hopes that actually the bleeding may have been something else such as cervical erosion or a subchorionic haematoma .. I'm still having pregnancy symptoms too which feels like a cruel joke. Hey ho, at least I have my answer now which is a relief as I can stop madly speculating and obsessing.
Wishing the rest of you ladies the best of luck and healthy pregnancies going forward xx

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Mrstobe90 · 06/08/2018 11:56

I'm so sorry op ThanksThanksThanks

PurpleFlower1983 · 06/08/2018 12:12

Sorry OP FlowersSad

Treaclepie19 · 06/08/2018 12:13

I'm so very sorry :( Flowers

The doctor wouldn't refer me so I'm going to book a private one. I'm not expecting good news. Like you I had bleeding but I also had some pain too.

NoNarnas · 06/08/2018 16:30

I’m so sorry Raffeylou.

My scan today was positive and showed baby with heartbeat again at just over 7 weeks. They couldn’t see any more bleeding on the scan so hoping it will settl down now.

Rachael321 · 06/08/2018 17:30

So sorry to hear that @Raffeylou

I think its all over for me too. Had more, heavier bleeding and a fair bit of pain. Spoke to epu and they've brought my appt forward to tomorrow at 2pm.

Honestly not holding out any hope now.

Treaclepie19 · 06/08/2018 22:25

I really have my fingers crossed for you @Rachael321
I hope your appt goes well x

Rachael321 · 07/08/2018 16:00

Bad news for us unfortunately
Blood test shows hcg levels dropped from 2000 odd on Sat to 200 odd last night at a&e.
Scan shows that I've miscarried
Devastated doesn't come close

Thanks everyone for the support

Treaclepie19 · 07/08/2018 16:18

@Rachael321 I'm so sorry :( Look after yourself xxx

Treaclepie19 · 07/08/2018 16:19

@NoNarnas I'm really glad to hear that, congratulations!

It's a long wait for me now... 10 more days until my scan.

NoNarnas · 07/08/2018 18:22

I’m so sorry Rachael, that’s awful news. Be kind to yourself as you recover physically and emotionally.

Raffeylou · 08/08/2018 18:47

Oh Rachael I'm so sorry, I wouldn't wish this misery on anyone. Miscarriage is so cruel, I don't know about you but I feel more pregnant than ever - my boobs are sore, I'm exhausted, I can't stop eating and my sense of smell is through the roof. Surely there are residual pregnancy hormones still in my system, I can't understand why A&E told me my HCG count was zero especially as I got a positive on a home pregnancy test an hour earlier Confused.
Aw I'm delighted for you NoNarnas, so glad one of us came out with some good news! Wishing you a very happy and healthy pregnancy hun xx

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Raffeylou · 08/08/2018 18:54

I'm really keen to try for another baby ASAP, I feel so sad and empty .. I never wanted to become obsessive or desperate about a second child but this miscarriage has brought home the fact that my time (and good eggs) are running out fast Sad. It's certainly lent a sense of urgency to the situation .. I think I'd struggle to enjoy any future pregnancy - I'd be so paranoid and terrified of the same thing happening again - but it's a risk I'm going to have to take!

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Rachael321 · 09/08/2018 16:08

@Raffeylou I know exactly what you're feeling. We had been trying for about a year and it was my first pregnancy. Desperate to get there and have my little bundle. But I know il me a paranoid nervous wreck the next time and DH will have me wrapped in cotton wool!
Can't help thinking I'm being selfish though

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