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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

First pregnancy, looking for buddies..

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LG88 · 21/07/2018 10:12

Hi ladies. So I started testing on Wednesday and had nice lines show up on frer tests wed Thurs and Fri. This morning I decided to brave the digital and was shocked to see 2 - 3 weeks pop up as I thought I had ovulated late this cycle. I am over the moon but still pretty nervous after an early miscarriage in May. Feeling much more positive this time around but husband doesn't want to tell anyone for a while so I am feeling a little isolated in it. Wondered if anyone else is early on and wants to share the journey /support each other. Xx

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LG88 · 12/08/2018 17:17

Hi all, welcome and congratulations. Hope all is going well for everyone. I had an early viability and reassurance scan this morning. I don't think I have ever been so nervous about anything. Xx

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italianwifey · 12/08/2018 23:21

How did it go @lg88? Hoping all is well? I’ve got to go back to the EPU later this week after some pain I had last week and they couldn’t see anything, am keeping things crossed that it’s just too early as they have mentioned...

LG88 · 13/08/2018 05:49

@italianwifey oh sorry to hear that, I'm sure all will be fine for you. They often struggle to see anything clearly in the early weeks. I will be keeping everything crossed for you that all goes well. It was really lovely thank you. I was a mess going in but they showed me baby on a big TV screen and I saw the little heart beat. I even got a picture although it doesn't look like much to anyone else at the moment but I love it!!! 💕 What day do you go back to epu? Xx

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donna474 · 13/08/2018 07:28

Hi all, 3.5 weeks today so very early on and very anxious about making bean stick! Only just found out yesterday so fingers and toes crossed!

Gavinmaxine1 · 14/08/2018 05:36

Welcome newbies I hope everyone is feeling ok? Such an anxious time the first trimester 😬we are now 8 weeks gone and seen heartbeat on scan 🤗our consultant says can tell people as at this stage chances of anything going wrong are down to 1%! He says the 12 week thing is an old wives tale lol but spoze it's a personal choice. Have slight bump already & few customers at work have guessed already 🤦🏻‍♀️no hiding it lol xx

italianwifey · 14/08/2018 08:30

Ahh @gavinmaxine that’s great news! Bet that was lovely.
Thanks @lg88 I keep swinging between telling myself I’m sure all will
Be fine then panicking! But I know there is nothing I can do either way. I’m back in Thursday morning. Congrats @donna474! Do you have short cycles or just poas early?

donna474 · 14/08/2018 15:47

@italianwifey I have cycles between 24-27 days so literally tested the day before period was due as had a slight bit of spotting and my SO wanted me to test. Literally thought nothing of it, peed on the stick and then planned to jump in shower and suddenly an extra line came up. Only 3+6 so super early days for us but hopeful

italianwifey · 14/08/2018 16:37

@donna474 ah okay, I just ask because me too - I had a 22 day cycle this month that I conceived which meant I technically found out really early! I was confused tho as thought maybe because the foetus has been alive the same amount of time if that makes sense that it might mean further along than we think? But have no clue really!!

LG88 · 14/08/2018 16:57

@Gavinmaxine1 thank you for posting that, I know nothing is guaranteed but when your read things like that which has come from someone medically trained it us certainly reassuring. 😊
Huge congratulations @donna474 and fingers crossed this is a nice smooth journey for you.
@italianwifey keeping everything crossed for you that Thursday morning you have a lovely clear scan and you leave feeling reassured and can relax (as much as you ever can in the first trimester) I do wish we could fast forward these early weeks just to stop all the worry and nerves. It certainly does stop you being able to enjoy being pregnant. I also found a website called miscarriage reassurance and have found this has really helped set my mind at rest more. Xx

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LG88 · 14/08/2018 16:59

datayze.com/miscarriage-reassurer.php
Hope this works. Xx

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donna474 · 14/08/2018 18:19

@italianwifey I was concerned that having short cycles would have an effect as not much time between AF and ovulation. How far are you now? I'm going to get an early scan but not sure when to get it

CobaltRose · 14/08/2018 18:23

Hi everyone!

This is technically my second pregnancy but hopefully first baby. I suffered a missed miscarriage in April (was supposed to be 12 weeks but a scan revealed an empty sac Sad)

I'm now 10 weeks pregnant again and have been full of anxiety! I was worrying even more recently because my nausea has improved a lot over the last few days.

I had a scan today and I needn't have worried Grin Scan showed a healthy bean with a strong heartbeat, wiggling around on the screen ❤ Even stuck their tongue out Grin

First pregnancy, looking for buddies..
First pregnancy, looking for buddies..
italianwifey · 14/08/2018 19:38

@lg88 that website is amazing! I’m scared to get my hopes up too much now haha. Is interesting actually @donna474 as on that website it suggests ovulation/conception date is more accurate than LMP. That would put me at 5 + 5 . I’m actually going in tomorrow morning now @LG88 so will let you know how it goes, thanks for the well wishes.

Baby160P · 14/08/2018 19:55

First scan today and baby was like a raver they took a while to get the pictures 🙈

donna474 · 15/08/2018 09:35

@Baby160P that's great, how many weeks are you?
@italianwifey I had a look on that site and if I put in my ovulation dates it brings my due date forward 2 days so don't think there's much difference in it for me

LG88 · 15/08/2018 09:53

@italianwifey good luck this morning, let us know how you get on. 🍀🤞🙏🍀🤞🙏

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Baby160P · 15/08/2018 10:05

I'm 12+6 today. So relieve as I was in a bad car accident Monday (not my fault) and have severe whip lash but I just wanted to know the baby wasn't harmed. Relief!!! Xx

italianwifey · 15/08/2018 10:25

That’s interesting @donna4674, mine is a 6 day difference! Feels like a lot at this stage...

italianwifey · 15/08/2018 14:09

Just to update you @lg88 scan showed a sac and yolk so feeling pleased as it’s as it should be for this stage. Feeling relieved!!

LG88 · 15/08/2018 14:13

@italianwifey yay!! That is amazing news. I have been thinking of you with my fingers crossed all morning. So pleased it went well for you. It's so weird the mix of emotions this brings isn't it. So so happy to be pregnant but with such huge fears about what that might involve. Relax now and enjoy it as much as you can. Xx

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italianwifey · 15/08/2018 14:32

Thanks @LG88 ! Feeling over the moon and so happy I could cry haha.
How is everyone else doing?

LG88 · 07/09/2018 20:18

Hey ladies, how is everyone doing? Xx

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