Im worrying myself into a right state but cant help it...

[fifisworld]

Im 11+2 and have my 1st scan next Tuesday 5th June but im so so scared that they are going to say ive had a missed m/c or that theres something wrong.
I can remember being a bit like this when i was pg with ds but i dont think i was this bad.
Im also worried about the fact that if there is something wrong i go away 5 days after my scan.
Ive tried to talk to my dp but he thinks im just being paranoid as ive got no reason to think anythings wrong. Ive had bad sickness which has stopped for about a week but i have been feeling sickly today, had no pains or bleeding, seem to be getting a bump etc.
Sorry for ranting on i think i just needed to get some of my worries off my chest.

I think you are perfectly normal!

Of course its a worry, that's why we have the scans. From what you've said there are no symptoms to cause you concern. Try to stay calm and not worry.

I'm on pg number 4 and it is by far the one I've worried about the most as I keep feeling my luck must run out!

Hopefully you can relax after the scan and enjoy the rest of your pregnance. Good luck

Thanks foxybrown

pregnance? Sorry! Pregnancy I mean!

Hope you don't worry too much, there's always something isn't there?

fifisworld, I'm in the same boat if you will. Worrying myself senseless about everything, missed m-c or nasty news about something else. Trying to stay positive but...... Scan in 2 weeks and in one hand can hardly wait yet dreading it like plague as well. Even if the scan is OK, will have to wait for the amniocentesis. So hoping everything will turn out well!

Snap ladies. Mine is on the 4th and panicing already! My dh keeps telling me to stop being so silly and that I was exactly the same with dd. I don't remember but i'm sure I was.
Try not to worry

It's hard not to worry - I don't think there's a single pregnancy where the Mum doesn't worry at all! Just try to make sure you are getting plenty of rest and eating well. I'm sure everything will be fine. Take care and look after yourselves. xx

my first pregnancy i was so worried and shocked by it all, actually having a baby at the end of the labour was a big surprise!

I was like this the whole way through my first pregnancy and I got so stressed my blood pressure shot up and I ended up with pre-eclampsia and an emergency section......

May I suggest you get a pregnancy relaxation CD?

If you miscarried at this point the masses of blood would give it away as well as pain. I used to do regular pregnancy tests just to reassure myself though so I know where you are coming from.

The worst you've got to face now is piles (and labour of course).

Thanks everyone

I feel a bit better today.
My sickness has come back a bit which, i never thought id say, but im pleased about.
Im glad im not the only one who has been worried about this, i feel almost normal now

I remember going for my first scan with DS1. I was nervous and I nearly burst into tears when they started the scan and the picture on the screen showned no baby. It was because the screen was clearing before displaying the real picture of a happy bouncing little baby shaped blob. I felt an utter prat!

Try not to worry - though it's hard to do. Apparently I turned into a complete cow just before both of my scans. I was so worried about them but hadn't actually told my hubby how much. I think it's perfectly normal to worry. Hope everything goes well

This was me yesertday - it was fine! I am sure you will be fine!