Finding out the sex

[lemonnmeringuepie]

I have a 28 week scan tomorrow and totally undecided whether to find out the sex this time?

When I had ID twins I found out at the earliest opportunity.

I'm torn as so many people do find out, and others say it is the best surprise of your life not knowing!

Are there many of you out there who didn't find out the sex and is it really the best surprise?? I am dying to know but don't want to spoil it!

I'm found out with my daughter as I wanted to know and husband wasn't bothered either way but wouldn't have booked a gender scan if they couldn't see at my anomaly scan.
I friend didn't find out either time. Second time she had growth scans because her first was tiny and she is sure the consultant knew don't think I would want everyone else knowing what I was having

I didn’t find out and really wish I had.

We didn’t find out with our first two and it was lovely, think we are going to find out with our third, but are telling everyone that we aren’t finding out again - I want to know, but I don’t want all my family and friends to know.

With my first I neeeeded to know. ASAP. She was a girl. With second I honestly didn't care girl or boy. Pregnancy was a hard slog. Didn't find out. A boy. Unless you have an expectation or preference don't find out. There's very few nice surprises in life!