Need advice

[Markygirl1995]

My partners nans funeral is tomorrow, I've booked the day off holiday to be supportive and comforting for him

Tonight he went to his social club, said I'm going to sleep because I've been tired all day ( we don't live together but we FaceTime every night and sleep on camera) I said don't call me if it gets to a ridiculous time. I had a text come through at 11:30 saying no I said well where are you? The club closes at 11.. he was outside with his mate he was crying over his girlfriend problems have been going on between them for months. I usually get out to bottom of the list too when it comes to situations like this...I said this is ridiculous think of me he basically after a row said I'm an arsehole and not to go to the funeral tomorrow.

I've message his sister not to pick me up and confirmed his wishes and decided not to go. I've had shitty messages come through now blaming me for all this and I feel worthless.

I've texted back saying I need space I feel like I need reassurance I'm not the shit on his shoe and to think of me more.

Is all that a bad thing or just me being stubborn/selfish and hormonal? Been crying non stop

He sounds horrible! His Nan’s funeral is no excuse for his shitty behaviour!

I think it's a bit strange that you don't live together but track his movements so closely. You sleep on camera? Do you trust each other?

But it's also not cool that he is using his nan's funeral as a weapon to manipulate you... this relationship doesn't sound the healthiest and super full of drama. How old are you both?

It's something we've always done, I think at the beginning of the relationship it came down to trust issues. We did live together previously broke and got back together and been together since for the last 3 years. I'm 23 and he is 29 this year

I can't really figure out what's going on here (he's annoyed at you for not wanting to Skype late at night? Or... something?) but frankly this relationship doesn't sound like much of a goer. He's volatile, there are trust issues, the two of you don't seem to be able to resolve things without drama and dragging other people into it.

I'd think about taking a long break from this relationship and thinking about what you want for the future.