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Pregnant and single after mmc

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Charlbx · 10/07/2018 19:23

Back in December me and my partner had a mmc at 10 weeks. I didn’t think anything was wrong and found out that the baby had stopped developing around 8 weeks and 5 days. I’ve recently found out I’m pregnant and am 8 weeks 2 days now. Although our last baby was planned this time it was an accident, I was on the pill and was not ready to become pregnant following everything that happened. My partner or should I say ex partner freaked out immediately a few weeks ago. We sorted things out but haven’t really spoken about the pregnancy. Now a few days ago I text him saying I needed to get some more pregnancy vitamins and he was very nasty saying it’s all a mistake and ended our relationship dropping all of my things off at my mums house. I’m very confused because although I knew he wasn’t initially happy I thought it was because he was scared however a day before he was saying how he wants a little girl and touching my very bloated tummy. Just looking for some advice on if anybody has went through something similar and how their relationships were effected. I really don’t want to have this baby by myself and definitely don’t want the stress involved especially considering I’m so frightened after last time. Is he just scared or is he being selfish?

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Relaxdontdoit · 10/07/2018 20:01

I had a mmc in November and I am now around 8+2w going from my last period. My relationship went down hill after the mmc as husband didn't want to talk about it and after finding out I'm pregnant he didn't talk to me and just want out for walks all day! I didn't see him. But since he's had time for it to sink in he's started talking to me again. He said the reason why he didn't talk and walked away was because he was scared about it happing again. And. He said he didn't want me to go thought it again.so maybe it's just his was of not getting hurt! Maybe now it's sunk in? I hope u to sort it out. And I'm sorry for ur lose xz

Charlbx · 10/07/2018 20:18

He hasn’t asked me once how I feel, and I know he’s probably acting out because he is scared that’s to be expected. I know I have to give him time but I feel completely alone and don’t know how everything will be ok again. I’m sorry for your loss too. Fingers and toes crossed for you xx

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Relaxdontdoit · 10/07/2018 22:22

My fella didn't speak for over a week it was the loneliest week ever! What u need to do hun is have a cuppa tea with him and both have a long talk. He won't like to talk about it but at least u know where u both stand! You need to be strong and tell him you need to sort this out. You both will get upset and probs say things you don't mean but from my experience getting my fella to open up about it has helped our relationship and we're stronger now then ever before xxxx atb hun xx

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