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OH doesn't ask how I am

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Goldenchick · 03/07/2018 13:03

Does anyone find that their OH doesn't really ask how you are?
I am 30+2 with my first baby and having wanted this for years am so happy and excited about my pregnancy. I am probably one of those annoying mums to be that can talk about it all the time Blush
However I sometimes find that OH doesn't seem to care about how I'm getting on. I experience lots of movement which I love but he just doesn't seem all that interested when I point it out. He does sometimes but not always.
I tell him I'm shattered (I work full time) yet he is getting annoyed that the house isn't as tidy as it once was. I struggle to bend down and pick stuff up, yet he'll notice a tissue that's been blown off the table by the fan and rather than pick it up, he'll point out that I've not!
I'm so many other ways he's amazing, but I don't understand this behaviour and it's starting to get to me.
I wonder if I'm just hormonal and over sensitive. He's always been a bit like this, but now it's Getting to me more x

OP posts:
peachesarenom · 03/07/2018 13:21

I had this recently, found it very upsetting. Got my mum (who he adores) to have a word and he seems to have got better.

BlueBug45 · 03/07/2018 14:23

No you aren't hormonal and over sensitive - he's being a prized a-hole. I suspect he's unhappy about not being the centre of your attention. As the poster above said get someone who he respects to talk some sense into him.

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