Bad news at scan yesterday...

[Kilkers]

I had an early scan yesterday (should have been 7+6) to be faced with a nice round sac that was completely empty.

Upshot is I'm either much earlier than I thought I was (sac measured 5/6 weeks) or the pregnancy stopped developing. I go back for another scan on the 2nd July. I've had no cramping or spotting, this is all very familiar from the MC I had in 2012 before DD was conceived. Stupid body is playing tricks on me as I still have symptoms and am getting strong positives on tests.

We've been trying for another child for nearly 3 years, so we're understandably gutted. I am finding not knowing one way or another hard to deal with. I suppose there is a very small chance that my dates are out by a couple of weeks, but pretty remote. Shitty shit shit.

Oh I'm really sorry to hear this :(

Everything crossed for you that your dates are wrong somehow

I really hope the outsome is that you're earier than you thought, but if not, I'm so, so sorry. That is soul destroying. It happens to lots of people but that doesn't make it any easier when it happens to you.

If you discover the pregnancy hasn't progressed, take very good care of yourself physically and emotionally. Only discuss it with people who really understand. People who have no difficulty conceiving often don't get it, so spend time with people who do.

Give yourself some treats and some space until you feel ready to start again.

Thanks ladies, not helping that I'm feeling the sickest than I have been today. HCG test on Monday which will hopefully reveal more x

I’m sorry to hear this op. I was in an identical situation a year ago, but I knew my dates weren’t wrong so the second scan was just confirmation for the medical staff, I already knew it wasn’t going to be good news.
I took a six month break but am pregnant again now.
Fingers crossed you have a positive outcome.

this is gutting when it happens I had this in 2016, the hormones tests kept coming back higher and higher so I got my hopes up but the sac kept showing no progress so after 3 weeks of scanning and testing we decided to call it a day and had a medically managed removal. It was heart breaking but on a positive note, 3 months later we managed to get pregnant again and now we have a healthy happy little 1 year old daughter.