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I met someone thought he was lovely. Im pregnant. I told him he said hel only support me if I get rid. He’s cut all contact completely. My feelings for him have gone but I hate that my baby won’t know his/her dad. I have 2 children with someone else and never planned this I never wanted any more children, I WAS on contraception and have been since I had my son 3 and a half years ago. But somethings telling me not to end this pregnancy. I’m so hurt and scared. Not hurt about him I’m hurt he wasn’t the person I thought and is being so cold towards his own child, I get his views completely I do. I care how he feels. But I feel really pressured into having an abortion and my hearts breaking because that’s not what I want. I have no family and no support everything is awful at the mo

Hi... I met someone in February and I was always told I couldn't get pregnant so never used protection for the last 10 years and guess what ....im pregnant...but he's gone and I'm left doing this on my own...except I have my mum of course... I know its scary but if you have any doubts about terminating the pregnancy I would suggest you went to see someone ...ask your gp to refer you to talk to someone.... or there are also early pregnancy units that u can go to and discuss it with them....but there's time to think and be completely sure of what u want to do. Don't rush. Xx

I don’t want to get rid atall I know if I did I’d be doing it for him not me I’m in such a low place right now xx

I've sent you a PM x

When I was 17 I got pregnant with my daughter. Her father was a year older than me and had very little to do with either of us during the pregnancy.

I've also used a wheelchair since I was a child and can't walk at all.

The prospect of being a teenage, disabled single mother was terrifying! I considered abortion at one point.

I didn't have the abortion, and I am so thankful I didn't.
Raising her was and still can be hard, but being a single mother has its perks too.

The decision is yours ultimately and you should be supported either way, but please, please don't feel you have no choice.
Your ex doesn't have your best interests at heart, so why should you do something you don't want to do merely to make his life more convenient?

Do what's best only for you and your children.