My twins were born by emcs and the spinal one of the worst experiences of my life. I’m terrified of needles and it took 7 attempts to get it in, two of which felt like my leg had been torn off.
We are considering another baby but I cannot go through that again while fully aware. High chance of needing another section for various reasons (mainly tokophobia and birth trauma which I tried unsuccessfully to battle last time).
Is there anything they can do to help, even gas and air? Really wouldn’t want a general unless it was crucial.