Aibu about this

[leanne9312]

Just need someone to tell me if I'm being a nag?

I'm 8 weeks pregnant and my partner keeps saying I'm complaining all the time of feeling sick etc !
I feel like all I've done is complain but it's really hard feeling sick all the time!
He now said he doesn't want another baby after this because of how I'm going on and that if I'm this bad I need to go to the hospital wtf!!!!
This is a 5 year of trying pregnancy and I'm grateful for it but I now I feel like I'm taking advantage for some reason
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YANBU he’s not being supportive is he?

Usually he is but I think my c mplaining has pissed him off and he's fed up x

I am sure feeling ill is pissing you off. My DH did not understand that the first trimester was so difficult so I bought him the baby books written my am ex marine who was a SAHp. It helped him understand what I was feeling.

Shame you can't make him feel and be sick every day for weeks on end and see how he feels about it, I am sure there would be some complaining!
Seriously there may well be some really challenging times ahead for you as a couple, especially when there is a new baby to look after, he needs to get himself together and be there for you instead of moaning about how this is impacting on him.

Yeah I agree and I wish he could feel it ! Bloody nightmare I already have one but she's 5 now so forgot everything lol

YANBU, he is. The first trimester is absolutely exhausting, I'm 28 weeks now. Obviously I still have third trimester to go but the first was a million times harder than the 2nd.

He needs to realise that making a human being is very very exhausting. I had major emergency abdominal surgery 2 years ago, I was much more exhausted in the 1st trimester than I was after that surgery!!

He needs to stop being so flipping selfish.

Oh and btw, my DH has put up with more complaining in the last 28 weeks of pregnancy than the whole previous 9 years we've been together combined. Guess what... He's nice about it because he figures I'm making our baby which is flipping hard work.

Thankyou everyone for all your help I will use the advice and help him understand, spoke to him before and he's starting to understand (this is his 1s baby my second) although at one point he said it's kinda physiological and if I didn't think about it all the time I would feel better lol