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First time mum-to-be with lots of cloth nappy questions!

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birthofawoman · 08/05/2018 21:49

[Warning - very long post]

Due to give birth in two weeks and one day. Really interested in cloth napping but SO overwhelmed by unanswered questions, all the different nappy options (and not knowing what they mean/how they vary) and so forth!

I understand that there’s lots of videos on YouTube etc on cloth nappies, but surprisingly I haven’t stumbled upon any that actually/specifically answer the questions I have!

I’m interested in those all-in-one, preferably ‘birth-to-potty’ cloth nappies, as they seem like the most convenient/least hassle! Bumgenius nappies look good to me, but I still have so many questions!

1.	Do you HAVE to get newborn cloth nappies or is there a certain type of birth-to-potty nappy that works really well from newborn? Seeing as newborn nappies exist alongside certain kinds of ‘birth-to-potty’ nappies, I’m assuming the latter aren’t so good for newborns? 

2.	I’ve been told that newborns, on average, get through about 10 nappies a day? With this said: 
⁃	How many cloth nappies, in total, would be a decent number to own (newborn or otherwise)?
⁃	How often are you expected to do nappy washes - daily? 

3.	For how long do newborns stay wearing the ‘newborn’ cloth nappies before they can move onto the bigger ones?

4.	How long do cloth nappies take to dry once washed (I’m sure this would vary from brand to brand, and depending on time of year etc)?

5.	If I were to buy ‘all-in-one’ cloth nappies, what else would I need in terms of a wet bag (how many?), a nappy bin/wet bin etc?

6.	What happens when you’re out and about with a cloth nappy baby? I’m assuming you’d travel with a wet bag and put the nappies in that? In which case, how many ‘out and about’ wet bags would I need to purchase? 

7.	Once baby has passed ‘newborn’ stage and can wear regular cloth nappies, how many nappies, on average would they get through a day? With that said:
⁃	How many ‘regular’ (not newborn) sized nappies would I need to own with an older baby (not newborn)?

8.	Is it necessary to have separate ‘nighttime’ cloth nappies for nighttime, or would regular daytime cloth nappies suffice? 

9.	Does anybody actually buy cloth nappies new? It seems as though, for the amount of cloth nappies you need in total, buying that many NEW cloth nappies is just very, very expensive (certainly too expensive for my ‘broke student’, early twenties budget). 

I guess my biggest confusion is knowing how many cloth nappies to buy/own (how many a baby would need in general), more specifically - how many a newborn would need, and how often I’d need to do washes. As well as not knowing how they vary from brand-to-brand, and knowing which styles/brands are the most effective (I know this varies from baby-to-baby). I’m finding this all really overwhelming! I plan to attend my local nappy library, but it takes place just 2 days before my due date!

I’m worried I’ll have to rely on disposables at first, until I get my head around this whole cloth nappy thing - something I REALLY don’t want to have to do!

Gigantic thank you if you read this far, and for your input/advice if you manage to give any (I know I’ve asked a LOT of questions).

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contracting · 08/05/2018 22:11

Hi
It's been a while since I used nappies as youngest is 11.5 but here's what I can remember:

1.	Do you HAVE to get newborn cloth nappies or is there a certain type of birth-to-potty nappy that works really well from newborn? Seeing as newborn nappies exist alongside certain kinds of ‘birth-to-potty’ nappies, I’m assuming the latter aren’t so good for newborns? 

2.	I’ve been told that newborns, on average, get through about 10 nappies a day? With this said: 
⁃	How many cloth nappies, in total, would be a decent number to own (newborn or otherwise)?
⁃	How often are you expected to do nappy washes - daily? 

I think we had 20. I washed ours everyday.
3. For how long do newborns stay wearing the ‘newborn’ cloth nappies before they can move onto the bigger ones?
From memory think we moved around 6 mths
4. How long do cloth nappies take to dry once washed (I’m sure this would vary from brand to brand, and depending on time of year etc)?
Depends on type. Bamboo dry v quickly.
5. If I were to buy ‘all-in-one’ cloth nappies, what else would I need in terms of a wet bag (how many?), a nappy bin/wet bin etc?
Nappy bin - dry pail, ie throw everything in together.
I used cut bits of towel to wipe their bottoms, ie no wipes.
2 wet bags.

6.	What happens when you’re out and about with a cloth nappy baby? I’m assuming you’d travel with a wet bag and put the nappies in that? In which case, how many ‘out and about’ wet bags would I need to purchase? 

Just the two
7. Once baby has passed ‘newborn’ stage and can wear regular cloth nappies, how many nappies, on average would they get through a day? With that said:
⁃ How many ‘regular’ (not newborn) sized nappies would I need to own with an older baby (not newborn)?
Think we had around 8.
8. Is it necessary to have separate ‘nighttime’ cloth nappies for nighttime, or would regular daytime cloth nappies suffice?
We only had nighttime ones when they were much older.

9. Does anybody actually buy cloth nappies new? It seems as though, for the amount of cloth nappies you need in total, buying that many NEW cloth nappies is just very, very expensive (certainly too expensive for my ‘broke student’, early twenties budget).
I did but I also bought a lot second hand hand.

I guess my biggest confusion is knowing how many cloth nappies to buy/own (how many a baby would need in general), more specifically - how many a newborn would need, and how often I’d need to do washes. As well as not knowing how they vary from brand-to-brand, and knowing which styles/brands are the most effective (I know this varies from baby-to-baby). I’m finding this all really overwhelming! I plan to attend my local nappy library, but it takes place just 2 days before my due date!
Have a look at thenappylady.co.uk
She offers free advice

Overall I'd say that it's not that hard, you just need to be organised.

Hope everything goes well. Oh and I think there is a Cloth Nappy forum on here so you may get more traffic if you post there.

Blue2017 · 08/05/2018 22:18

birthofawoman congratulations on your pregnancy, just wanted to give you an idea - why don't you buy 10 cloth nappies and some disposables and see how you get on, I went a bit mad and brought £200 worth and loved them but found they leaked and personally I feel they restricted my daughter's leg movements, she had a lot of bad nappy rash and you can't really use cream with cloth nappies so I switched back to disposables which suit us alot better!! She was only in them for 3 months xx

Mymouthgetsmeintrouble · 08/05/2018 22:25

Dont buy a big kit of the same nappy as not all nappies suit all babies , i couldnt use pocket nappies on my eldest as he was a very heavy wetter yet they are great for my youngest i also have some nappies that i used on my older children that dont suit my baby at all , the best nappies for newborn are prefolds or terries with a wrap you just change the inner nappy and can use the wrap a few times before you wash it , buy newborn size then you can move on to birth to potty once baby is a bit bigger

SmallestInTheClass · 08/05/2018 22:34

First of all, you don't need to decide all this now! I used cloth with two and second time I used newborn disposables for the first few weeks (DD was v small) and moved to all in one one size cloth at 3 months. I found there was so much else to think about in the early weeks, and with two under two, it seemed the best compromise.

1.Do you HAVE to get newborn cloth nappies or is there a certain type of birth-to-potty nappy that works really well from newborn? Seeing as newborn nappies exist alongside certain kinds of ‘birth-to-potty’ nappies, I’m assuming the latter aren’t so good for newborns?
Depends on the size of your newborn, mine were 5lbs and 6lbs and we're way too small for birth to potty. Would be different if you had a big baby. Babies grow so fast, I tried using newborn first time but second time didn't, see my comment above.

2.I’ve been told that newborns, on average, get through about 10 nappies a day? With this said:
⁃How many cloth nappies, in total, would be a decent number to own (newborn or otherwise)?
⁃How often are you expected to do nappy washes - daily?
About 20 nappies, washing every 2 days. Different nappies suit different body shapes in babies so don't be tempted to buy them all at once, better buy one each of some different sorts and mix with disposables until you know what works and can buy a full stash of your favourites.

3.For how long do newborns stay wearing the ‘newborn’ cloth nappies before they can move onto the bigger ones?
About 3-4 months for mine.

4.How long do cloth nappies take to dry once washed (I’m sure this would vary from brand to brand, and depending on time of year etc)?
The outers and microfiber inserts of all on ones dry in 24 hours hung inside or out. Once your baby is big enough you'll find microfiber isn't absorbent enough and you'll need to ads bamboo inserts, which take ages to dry indoors, I found I needed a dryer or airing cupboard or 48 hours round the house.

5.If I were to buy ‘all-in-one’ cloth nappies, what else would I need in terms of a wet bag (how many?), a nappy bin/wet bin etc?
Nappy bin, we used string bags inside the nappy bin then you can just lift and put in the wash. Had three wet bags for taking out or using at nursery.

6.What happens when you’re out and about with a cloth nappy baby? I’m assuming you’d travel with a wet bag and put the nappies in that? In which case, how many ‘out and about’ wet bags would I need to purchase?
See above. I found them smelly so tended to use a plastic nappy bag to wrap them instead. Not very environmentally friendly but a whole lot better than a disposable.

7.Once baby has passed ‘newborn’ stage and can wear regular cloth nappies, how many nappies, on average would they get through a day? With that said:
⁃How many ‘regular’ (not newborn) sized nappies would I need to own with an older baby (not newborn)?
Basically about one more day's worth than how often you wash. Allow about 7 per day, so about 14-15 if you wash every day, 20 or so to wash every 2 days.

8.Is it necessary to have separate ‘nighttime’ cloth nappies for nighttime, or would regular daytime cloth nappies suffice?
I never got night time to be leak free so used disposables at night. The cloth nappy board will have lots of posts on this.

9.Does anybody actually buy cloth nappies new? It seems as though, for the amount of cloth nappies you need in total, buying that many NEW cloth nappies is just very, very expensive (certainly too expensive for my ‘broke student’, early twenties budget).

I bought mine on eBay (new, but not the trendy brands). You might get help on the cloth nappy board but many of the mums on there are well off ladies who will only buy the big brands. My cheaper ones were great, all did 2 babies and still fine for another use. If you want the big brands, I'd go second hand.

I guess my biggest confusion is knowing how many cloth nappies to buy/own (how many a baby would need in general), more specifically - how many a newborn would need, and how often I’d need to do washes. As well as not knowing how they vary from brand-to-brand, and knowing which styles/brands are the most effective (I know this varies from baby-to-baby). I’m finding this all really overwhelming! I plan to attend my local nappy library, but it takes place just 2 days before my due date!
Go and see the nappy library and don't feel bad if you end up mixing up cloth and disposables while you find what works for you

bluechameleon · 08/05/2018 22:47

I'd recommend joining some Facebook selling sites and buying a variety. Don't buy all the same brand even when you've worked out which ones work for you - I did this then DS1 had a growth spurt and outgrew all his nappies overnight.
I personally like fitted nappies with separate wraps as I find them the most leakproof. The fitted nappies can be found very cheaply (most of DS2's current ones I got for just the cost of postage) and then I spend a little more on pretty wraps as you don't need so many of those (I tend to use 2 or 3 wraps a day). I like having double wetbags for out and about, so I can put clean nappies in one pocket and dirty in the other. Baba + boo wetbags are cheap and good.

TheDuckSaysMoo · 08/05/2018 22:59

I used bumgenius 2.0 with my two dc. I bought 15 new for dc1 and these lasted through dc2. I wouldn't hesitate to buy second hand. I used disposables for the first 4 weeks as they are just so tiny at first but then my 15 nappies saw me through until potty trained at 2-3 years.

I used disposables at night as I lived in hope that it would help the baby sleep longer - it didn't.

I had a large lidded bucket from Ikea that I used to dry pail. I lined it with a large drawstring wet bag, which I pulled tightly closed to prevent smells. I'd carry the bag to the washing machine and tip in the whole lot, including the bag - so easy!. Nappies dried fine overnight.

I also used a stack of cheap facecloths instead of wipes in the house. They got chucked in with the nappies to wash. Cheaper and much nicer to use than wipes.

Out and about I had a small wet bag for dirty nappies. Any poo was flushed and the nappy liner binned, so it's not horrible to carry around. I did carry some plastic nappy bags in case there were any horrendous nappies / clothes that needed hermetically sealed. The wet bag was washed with the nappies too.

The nappy lady site is great for advice and I used to buy my nappy liners from there.

PurdysChocolate · 08/05/2018 23:41
  1. Unless you have a large newborn, you would need newborn cloth nappies. Since the newborn period is brief some people skip this stage and just use disposables (I did with DC1). With DC2 I did I bought some Pop-in newborn nappies. I liked them but their time in use was short.
  1. I can't really say how many you should own, as I've ended up with way more nappies than I need. They are a bit addictive! I did a nappy wash whenever my wet bag got full - with 1 child in cloth, this was about every other day, with 2 children in cloth, this is almost everyday.
  1. Depends on the size of your newborn, and how quickly they start really soaking them through. My baby was 7lbs6oz. I started boosting my newborn nappies with some spare inserts I had laying around by 6 weeks maybe? as he was leaking them through, and the nappies were completely out of rotation by 10 weeks I think.
  1. Depends on the material. Very absorbent materials like bamboo and hemp take a long time to dry. Low absorbency materials like minky dry very quickly. My bamboo nappies can dry in a day in the airing cupboard if I turn them over so both sides get air. In this heat we've been having, everything has dried in an instant on the line!
  1. Besides nappies and wet bag, I have:
  • a random bucket I keep the wet bag in.
  • fleece liners (my brand is Little Lamb) which you place in the nappy to create a dry, soft layer next to the skin and which lessens poo stains on the actual nappy, and stops rash cream getting on the nappy
  • cloth wipes
  • various inserts which can boost the absorbency of the nappies
  1. When out, you put your dirty nappies in a wet bag or a plastic bag. If I am going to be out all day, I use disposables, otherwise I'm carrying around a laundry load worth of nappies around with me.
  1. I change every 3 hours with bamboo nappies, except when there is poop I change straight away.
  1. You need special night nappies. For the first year I just added a good booster to my daytime bamboo nappies, but after that I needed to buy some special hemp night time nappies and inserts to get through the night with no leaks.
  1. I know people buy them new because you get people on the selling groups getting rid of entire boxes of basically new cloth nappies that they, "didn't get around to using" or "didn't get on with" etc Bargain if you know you like that brand!

Cloth is overwhelming at first. Get on the Facebook groups "Cloth Nappies For Sale/Wanted UK" or "Pre-loved Cloth nappies and accessories." Just browse for a bit and get familiar with some of the popular brands. I found a seller who was selling several different brands in her post and bought them to see which I preferred. As it happens I like different brands in different situations (some are slimmer-fitting, sometimes I don't want a really absorbent nappy because it's an hour until bed, etc). I now have three brands I used regularly, and few others I only really use when I'm behind on the laundry.

JohnLapsleyParlabane · 08/05/2018 23:45

Have you got a local nappy library? They hire trial kits. Some also do postal loans. People tend to find this useful when feeling overwhelmed.

DropZoneOne · 09/05/2018 00:06

A while since I was using but I had bumgenius 2.0 too! Used disposables initially as DD was prem and only 4lb when she came home. Once she reached about 10lb the nappies fit a lot better, folded on the smallest setting with just the thin liner in. As she grew, I added more padding to soak quicker.

I think I had 15 nappies, enough to wash every 2-3 days and they were microfiber padding so dried really quickly. Plus some random trial ones that I bought when deciding what to go for.

Just had a bucket in the bathroom and a waterproof drawstring bag for out and about. I used washable wipes in the house. Tried fleece liners but never got the hang of flicking the poo off so just used paper flushable liners and reused them if wet only.

I'd make the nappies up once they were dry, so ready to go. This made them husband proof (and nursery proof).

Night time was a bit harder. I had two part nappies free from the council that I used, after boosting BG so much and still getting leaks. Bamboo was pretty new then but may have been a better option. In the end I switched to disposables at night.

I sold them all off in the end for £50 so have a look out for second hand sales.

riddles26 · 09/05/2018 14:52

I have an 18 month old and second on the way. I've used cloth nappies since she was born but not exclusively (we have been cloth all day with one disposable at night since she fitted in btp nappies). My preference (and entire collection) is all in one or pocket nappies so all piece at the point of putting them on - they are definitely the easiest to deal with.

In answer to your questions:

  1. Unless your baby is particularly large, you will need newborn nappies. If you choose cloth for this, I recommend second hand or a hire kit. I bought one close pop in set second hand which contained 10 inners and 6 wraps then used disposables in between as I couldn't justify the cost of more reusables. By 7-8 weeks, we started using our btp nappies.
  1. It is most common to wash on alternate days and you will need around 20-24 for daytime use. We wash every 2-3 days and have about 30. We've never completely run out but have run low a few times
  1. Depends on baby, mine was a little smaller than average and we moved on at 7-8 weeks.
  1. You're right, completely varies brand to brand and time of year. I recommend having different brands in your collection, some of which dry quicker than others for when you run low.
  1. Lidded bucket with 2 mesh bags is all that is needed for washing. Some essential oils are good for smells
  1. We have one wet bag for out and about with 2 pockets - one used for clean dry nappies plus clean wipes and other for dirty. We wash it with nappies every week or 2.
  1. Same as my answer to no 2 as we only properly invested in regular nappies
  1. Like a pp, I also didn't manage to master using cloth at night so stick to them during the day. She only goes through one disposable at night and I can justify its use
  1. I've bought all my btp new but have not paid full price for any. Keep an eye on all retailers for sales, follow all their Facebook pages too and you will know when they have sales.
I've paid £10-11 per nappy for all of mine, still a significant total amount as I have 30 of them but the majority are £18+ brand new full price so a good saving.

Don't buy an entire kit of any brand. When I was pregnant, I followed all the retailers and brands and picked up a couple of each when on sale/designs being discontinued/updated versions released. I decided on my favourites and invested in more of them when they went back on sale.

Hope that helps

TeaPleaseBob · 10/05/2018 08:17

I used cloth with my first and about to use them again with my second due in June.

We used small prefolds, motherease sandies in small (a fitted cotton 2 part nappy) and small little lambs when my daughter was tiny. She was 6lbs 10oz at both and we used them from about 1 week. All of these need covers and we used bambino mio, thirstiest duo size 1 and motherease covers. The 2 part systems work very well for small babies and contain breast fed poo explosions much better than disposables. We have about 20 newborn sized nappies and 6/7 covers.

Probably started using birth to potty size regularly at about 2 months alongside newborn. We mainly used bumgenius flips with stay dry insert which we found really good and not too bulky for under clothes/ in changing bag. Also used bambino mio all in ones which were ok but couldn’t be left on much longer than 2 hours. Had a couple bumgenius 4.0 all in ones which were good and grovia all in twos (popper insert which could be changed and wrap reused- these fitted well on small baby as narrow). We have 5 flip covers and about 15 inserts. Also have about further 10 nappies of other varieties (probably slightly more than necessary but I bought some because they’re pretty 🙈)

For nighttime we used tots bots bamboozles with a fleece liner and thirsties duo wraps size 2. Eventually had to start using boosters as daughter got older/ slept longer.

I had nappy bin to start with but changed to huge wetbag instead as much easier to just tip whole lot into washing machine and not faff with washing plastic bucket too. We used planetwise xl bags and they’re still in great condition.

When out and about I preferred the flips as they’re so compact. Also used to have an emergency disposable in bag just in case. We have 5 small wet bags for taking out with us although could get by with 2 or 3.

Washed every second day (cold rinse, cotton wash or baby wash at 40/60 with powder only then extra rinse at end). Most of ours were fairly quick drying. Used to wash in morning and then they’d be dry by next morning if hung on airer inside- faster if could get them out on washing line. The bamboo nappies and grovia inserts took longer to dry as they’re more absorbant.

I bought prefolds and other newborn nappies second hand from cloth nappy tree website. Most of the others were bought new although generally looked for offfers.

You don’t need to buy them before baby here, go to cloth nappy library and see what they suggest will suit your circumstances. You can sometimes hire newborn packs from them and I think nappy lady website maybe still does hire packs? It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Every cloth nappy you use saves a disposable going to landfill so is a bonus. Don’t let yourself get overwhelmed and don’t buy loads of expensive nappies straight away that might not suit you.

We also use cloth wipes which are much better at cleaning than disposable wipes. Either keep dry or in wipes solution in house and chuck in bag with dirty nappies after use. For out and about I used to take them dry and a spray bottle of water (or just wet under tap if it was close to baby changing unit). We used cloth wipes for hands and faces too but kept separate from nappy stuff and just washed with normal washing.

LittleGreySheep · 10/05/2018 08:23

My best advice is to just buy a few and see how it goes. Before I gave birth I was determined to use cloth nappies. Then I had an emergency c-section and could barely move never mind do laundry. I'm still permanently exhausted and can hardly keep up with washing baby clothes never mind nappies.

birthofawoman · 11/05/2018 12:05

Thank you all for providing such detailed responses, educating me on the very complex world of cloth nappies! Seems it's a case of testing out a few different brands/kinds, trial and error and so forth. I think I'm going to start with eco-friendly disposables to take the pressure off myself while I get the hang of the cloth nappy situation. I'll visit my local sling library, probably buy a few used ones (different brands) and see which ones work best for my baby.

Thanks, again - you've all been really helpful!

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Cosmoa · 11/05/2018 12:17

Hello! I'm new to this also, due in 10 days! I've bought a few bambino mio nappies and the liners (about £5 for 160 flushable liners)

Gonna see how I get on with them. They might be a bit bulky whilst she's a new born but I imagine they'll be much more useful when she's older and don't need changing quite as much!

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