Sex

[Lea18]

What's people opinions on having sex or an orgasm in early pregnancy with a history of miscarriages? Midwife said have a think after 1st scan at6 weeks and we seen heart beat but do need a rescan in two weeks ?
I seem to be really horny and frustrated haha
Haven't name changed because I don't have any shame pmsl
Thankyou for any help or info x

Personally don't see why a orgasm could or would cause a miscarriage ..... xx

I read something about it contracting the uterus or some story like that lol

After 3 miscarriages, my gyno told me to avoid intercourse. We restrained penetration but used other methods to gain satisfaction. I also took progesterone, which I believe made a difference.

Aw well I've had 4 so maybe just wait, if u don't mind me asking did u orgasm (like the big ones) or just little lol, I assume if I do mine would be a big one lol

How old are you??

Best to avoid until you're in second trimester.

@GeorgieTheGorgeousGoat why lol??

When I said I've had four I meant miscarriages not bloody orgasms btw if that's why you were being funny asking my age

No, just your need to ‘lol’ at every mention of the word orgasm. A full stop would suffice.

I’d say probably avoid penitration - if you don’t feel 100% comfortable and secure doing it then best to not. Wait until you’re in the second trimester and see how you feel then.

Good luck with your second scan! Hope all goes well :)

It wasn't at the word but the situation

If u came without advice, look else where

@Notsooriginalwerther thankyou for your help I think I should wait really just hard tbh since I've been trying for 5 years got kinda used to it all the time haha.
Hopefully all goes well really nervous about it tbh

Having a miscarriage is funny?

Tbh I did have experience and advice but reluctant to share as the whole thread seems a bit off.

A bit bloody off !! No the miscarriages aren't funny the sex thing is.
Your not a really nice person Tbh
If you aren't going to help go away.

Sure

Brilliant, other people have helped because they understand or have decent advice you have just come on to be nasty , no other reason
Good bye

georgie stop being a keyboard warrior. This is a space for pregnant women to ask questions and being that she has had miscarriages before, you should be more sensitive.

Shame on you

@Georgie I'm actually appalled by the unnecessary nastiness I'm reading here! Seriously, what is wrong with some people?!

Thankyou to you both I thought I was being over sensitive, it's awful that people would feel the need to be nasty on such a sensitive post

I fail to see what I’ve actually said is nasty. I just asked what was so funny about such a sensitive subject. As I said, I clicked on to share some advice but changed my mind.

I think I'm actually going to have to give my first to Georgie.

OP my midwife said it is common to avoid sex in first trimester especially if there is a history of miscarriage so I'd advise holding off

You insulted me by asking my age which was obviously a dig, I then asked why and you said because I laughed at the word orgasm which shows you were trying to call me a child, then U actually thought in your head I was laughing about losing a child

I’ve had several miscarriages and no one ever mentioned it. Surely blood flow is good and sex is a stress reliever so might help keep you happy and feeling good if you’re feeling anxious about the pregnant.

Sorry for your losses and for the shitty replies you’ve had.

Wishing you luck with your pregnancy

@AnneLovesGilbert thankyou il keep that in mind I am very stressed . I just can't be dealing with an argument against someone I don't know 🙁 getting me Down

And sorry for your losses too ❤️