I feel like an idiot posting this, because I know that I'm fine, and it's probably just hormones making me unreasonable.
I'm 36+5 weeks. My gums were bleeding last night, which I told DH is common in pregnancy, but he said I should eat less "sugary rubbish". It's not that first time he's mentioned about how "badly" I've been eating, although most of it is 'jokey'. Everyone else has said how little weight I've put on and how well I look, and when I do eat rubbish (which I do, I've loved my biscuits and chocolate, but I eat healthy meals and lots of fruit as well), people tend to be very understanding of how pregnancy is and encourage me to eat what I fancy. I've not put on more than the recommended amount, and I wasn't overweight before I was pregnant.
He has never really said anything except that my bump or boobs are getting massive, or joking on about how much I love my food. He's not the type of man to find a pregnant body attractive, and I understand that. So he's never really said I look lovely or anything, but I guess I probably don't. But it's been a physically and emotionally hard pregnancy (5 previous losses), and he's found it hard too. He says his diet hasn't been good the last few weeks and he's drinking (small amounts) more often to relax - and I feel like I'm being supportive, reassuring him that it's hard, that it's understandable, it's not like he's drunk every night or eating a full cake a day. In the same way, sometimes I want the comfort food, but I'm feeling really judged for it.
It sounds absolutely pathetic writing this down. I don't know why it's upset me so much, it just makes me feel like he thinks I'm a fat, greedy pig and not looking after our baby properly. I don't want to start a load of husband bashing, because he's generally a lovely, supportive, wonderful man. I suppose I just want some fellow preggos to tell me I'm not a fat pig and I'm just being emotional!!