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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

SPD hell

36 replies

mustbemad17 · 30/04/2018 17:12

Anybody else struggling? I'm 34+3 & seem to be spending my days having a total melt down because of how much pain i'm in. Physio again tomorrow - my pelvis is wonky (can't remember the official term) so my right side is higher than my left; this seems to mean i'm overcompensating so even my knees & ankles hurt. Trying to take it easy but still have things that can't be avoided...the next six weeks are going to be hell.

Anyone any tips? Or even just want to have a whinge 🙈

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Pebblespony · 01/05/2018 12:23

It is torture. Mine finished the moment I had the baby though. I found chiropractor helped too. Also massaging just above my bum with a spiky ball.

Herewegoagain56 · 01/05/2018 12:27

Highly recommend chiropractor or osteopath who specialises in pregnant women. I went to a chiropractor as a last resort and i went from struggling to walk to being basically fine. I felt a difference after the first session and continued to go, improved after every one. Worth every penny

Prettylovely · 01/05/2018 12:30

I had it and was confined to the sofa, I couldnt even do the school run in the end as it was far too painful.
One thing I was going to say is I saw you have been having baths I was advised not to have baths as they can make it worse, they did for me as I literally couldnt stand when I had them.
I got given a list of donts which equated to doing nothing pretty much, Rest rest and rest.
Labour was hell for me as well as my hip pain was dreadful, I couldnt move properly at all getting up on the bed was agony.

You must make sure you have a bed that can be lowered, and dont give birth laying on your back! My physio wrote it all over my notes as she said they dont usually listen but you must be as upright as possible.
Hence to say I gave birth lying on my back as the baby got stuck and the dr said there was no time to move me.
I literally couldnt walk afterwards and had to be wheel chaired out, it took me 3 weeks till I was better.

Rest as much as you can its very important.
Goodluck.

SpacePenguin · 01/05/2018 12:50

Physio will help a little, but it'll be hard to get any sort of decent relief at this stage. Once it gets bad, it's very hard to come back from it. There are lots of things that you can do to stop it from getting any worse - and maybe give you some relief.

If you have another pregnancy, I'd advise you to be super strict from the start and you should notice a big difference. My third pregnancy was a vastly different experience from my first because I had seen the difference during pregnancy number 2 and I decided to be incredibly strict on the dos and don'ts right from the start.

Here are some things that helped me (sorry for the essay!)

  1. Keep your legs together as much as possible. Basically, pretend you are mermaid-like with one big leg Grin

-When getting in to the car, sit in bum-first, then swing your legs in. When getting out of the car, swing your legs out together before attempting to stand. A tip to make swivelling easier is to put plastic bags on the seat.
-When getting into bed, sit at the side of the bed, then lean on your elbow and at the same time, swing your legs upwards onto the bed and lie down on your side. From there, use your elbows and knees to position yourself comfortably. Use the reverse action when getting out of bed.
When turning in bed at night, keep your knees together and use your feet and elbows to move, lifting your hips without twisting them.
-Don't cross your legs when sitting and avoid sitting in a slouched position. Maybe sit on a kitchen chair rather than on a sofa.
-When getting dressed or undressed, don't stand on one leg. Sit down to put on underwear, trousers, etc.
-When you need to kneel down, do a lunge. Carefully bending one leg down first, then bring the other one down.

2.One step at a time on the stairs if you're finding stairs tough.
Going up stairs, lead with your good leg. Going down, lead with your bad. "Good goes to heaven, bad goes to hell." is a helpful memory aid!

  1. No heels whatsoever. Or flat shoes like Converse. Supportive granny shoes as much as possible. I got a small wedge for one shoe from the physio which helped with the imbalance, too.
  1. Sit with hips HIGHER than knees. Gym ball should be pumped up enough so that your hips are higher when you sit down. A wedge cushion is good for chairs and in the car.
  1. Avoid walking. Or standing for long periods. I used to get dropped off at the door like some sort of celeb!
  1. Avoid any push and twist actions. So, that's any activity that requires you to use your hips to twist your body - no hoovering, no mopping, no pushing trolleys (although, I found that if I walked beside the trolley and turned it carefully that way, it put much less pressure on the hips)
  1. Massage your bum and thighs and you will find lots of really tender, sore spots. Use a tennis ball, a spikey ball, or other massager to roll the area (lean against the wall and roll - think twerking!! Not a good look, but worth it). This will help to ease some of the knots out and give you a bit of relief. It's bloody sore though.
  1. A memory foam mattress or mattress topper is a godsend. I'd go to bed crippled and wake up a new woman :)

Here are a couple of videos on YouTube on PGP: and and and this one has some recommended exercises . They have a good series of video blogs, so you might find more useful info there.

mustbemad17 · 01/05/2018 12:56

Oh believe me, there will be no more babies 😂 this is number 3 & the first 2 were perfect, no pain or issues. After this one? They can sterilise me straight after birth 🙈

Thank you for the tips will bear them in mind. I'm on the hunt for an accupuncturist, physio advised against osteo.

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SiolGhoraidh · 01/05/2018 21:01

@mustbemad17 How are you getting on with the crutches? I was offered them at my appointment last week and turned them down. Was regretting that within 10 minutes of getting into work this morning as one side of my pelvis seemed intent on giving up and going home - I was very tempted to follow it!

The physio did not reckon she could do much for me by way of massage or exercises as I have hypermobility, but I've noticed that certain bellydance moves seem to help ease it. I've got the number for a chiropractor to see if they can help realign stuff.

Must admit I feel pretty bloody miserable at the thought of another 20 weeks of this!

mustbemad17 · 02/05/2018 07:39

The crutched hurt my hands (wimp) but the relief when walking is unreal. I'd definitely get a set if you can they really make a difference

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MonumentVal · 02/05/2018 18:40

Crutches hurt my hands hugely and I later got diagnosed with hypermobility syndrome. A folding wheelchair was a godsend - physios confirmed the osteo had given me perfect alignment which meant there was nothing they could do until after birth, except ban me from walking more than 300 yards a day. Luckily I live near buses so could get all over London and sleepily enjoy lots of cinema etc.
Bear in mind that even if the SPD vanishes after birth, you will need to build up your muscle strength again, which is where physios can really help.

mustbemad17 · 03/05/2018 16:06

I had accupuncture today, it was worth every penny. Sadly he couldn't do anywhere near as much as he felt i needed obviously due to baby bump, but what he did do was amazing. The relief already is unreal. Highly recommend

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SiolGhoraidh · 03/05/2018 22:12

I'm borrowing some crutches off a mate this weekend, as well as getting the loan of a fold up wheelchair. Be prepared.

mustbemad17 · 04/05/2018 07:34

Good luck! I'm refusing the wheelchair haha

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