Pregnant and bf threatening to leave

[Lolly2929]

So I'm five weeks pregnant ... I found out bout a week ago , I told my partner off two years straight away .... he told me to have a abortion straight away! I was shocked by his response, we live together and I have a five year old daughter from a previous relationship... he told me if I continue with this pregnancy he will cut contact with me and have no contact with this baby ... he told me I'm being stupid and selfish ... the only thing that's stopping me kicking his arse out is that I rely on him financially and tbh I'm really scared being on my own I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place ... this wouldn't be his first baby either he had two other children who his has minimal contact with ....i want this baby but I feel I'm being bullied into a termination ... I got my family support 100% but I'm still scared .... please i need some advice xx

Iv decided the baby's staying and he can jog on completely!!! I'm not being dictated too anymore ..... life is a struggle but as long as I got my baby's I will be fine!!! Sod him the stupid manchild!!!! All I needed was a bit off encouragement to fuck him off!!! He packing his stuff as we speak!! He wants me to feel sorry for him but coronation st is far more interesting!!!

@Lolly2929 if a high five was possible online I totally would! Well done!

@Smeddum thanks hun!!x

So glad to hear that Hun! Hope he pays you your money back ASAP!!

Girl get your money and get him gone! X

I told his mum I'm pregnant and he leaving me and Takeing my money!! His mum went mental and rang him up and said give the girl bk the money or u can forget coming bk here to live !!! I didn't think it would work but the mummas boy gave it bk to me!!! I cnt actually believe I was worried bout leaving this melt!! ..... I feel utterly relieved!

Lolly that's great news, go you!! X

Lolly2929 you have had a rough time, losing your little boy. What a super strong woman you are , sounds like you have plenty of support around and you will be fine with your DD and baba. Make sure he leaves the key on the way out

Thank you xxxx

Nearer fucking mind how he feels.

Fuck him off. Get him out.

Get rid.

Worse things than being with a dick who will drag you down.

You can do this just you. You know it.

Get your game fave on, be proud and fuck him completely. The dick.

Xxxxx

I've never seen so many spelling mistakes in my life

What a strong lady you are! I’m in awe of you! Good for you and good luck xxx

Amazing!!! You are so strong and can do this. If you need support there’s the babies due in December thread ☺️ Good luck with everything! X

I’ve been in a similar situation without the financial dependence. I would do what Kat suggested to get your money back (hopefully although seriously don’t hold your horses...) then kick his arse out and raise your DC alone. Your relationship is over either way, he is an arsehole.

some men are assholes!

If you want the baby you must keep it but also be prepared to bring the baby up on your own with no financial support from him.

Sounds to me like he should win the father of the year award by his other two children who he hardly has anything to do with!!

If your family are 100% supportive that's a massive added bonus for you!

Let him go. He obviously isn't worthy of a family and sounds like he doesn't want one anyway!

talking about spelling mistakes when there is someone asking for some support and advise?

If you keep the baby you need to be ready to do it alone unfortunately... sorry he's such a tossed!! xx

I’m glad to hear you’ve gotten rid of him! What right does he have to tell you to get rid of the baby. If he didn’t want one he should be much more responsible.

You’re such a strong person and I’m glad your family and his mum has been supportive of you :)