So our 20 week scan is due in 2 weeks my partner is dead set doesnt want to know he wants the surprise.. But me i want to know one minute the next i change my mind purly because i think we are in it together and it might feel strange me knowing and him not. Did anyone wish they left it as a surprise? This will probably be our only child too so i really dont want to be like oh i should of i wish i did now... Part of me wants to know not to buy blues or pinks but so i can know whos in there refer to them by the names weve chosen and not say baby it he she. I want to start bonding even if i did have to talk to him or her alone but sametime i feel wrong as my husband wont be part of it...so opinions please
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zzzzz ·
26/04/2018 20:15
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