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Pregnant and connect it to what he done

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Starfamxx · 24/04/2018 20:03

So I’m 4 months pregnant but to go back I found out in January that my partner had been messaging someone else really inappropriate things they both knew each other from the past and it completely broke my heart I confronted him and he admitted it straight away, messaged the person saying how he shouldn’t have messaged them and how much he loved me and that he’s the happiest he’s ever been (which I know your probably all thinking I had mug written all over me) but I decided to forgive him because I genuinely believe it was a mistake and that he would never do it again and that it made him realise what he had to lose but anyway I was so devastated and feel as if I will never know the true extent of what was said or what happend and then a week or so later while the emotions of all that were still so raw I found out I was pregnant but 4 months on I feel so low and I connect what happend with my partner to this pregnancy because it was all kind of rolled in to one time frame/emotional rollercoaster I am happy about the pregnancy and I want this little baby so much but my heart is so heavy because I just connect the two! Has anyone been through anything similar? How did you over come it? My partner can tell I am low because I am usually a really bubbly positive person and keeps asking what’s wrong and I don’t know if I should just be honest or not because I am just trying so hard to move on from it for everyone’s sake

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Aw12345 · 24/04/2018 21:21

No experience or wisdom but you have my sympathies, not an easy position to be in :-(

Congratulations on your baby though, good news :-)

GottaBeStrong · 29/04/2018 09:17

The way you feel is probably being made worse by the hormones. Have you thought about getting some counselling? Perhaps having someone unconnected to work through your feelings with might help.

The thing with forgiving and forgetting is that it is easy to intend that but in practice can be quite hard to do. It's easier for the other person in a way.

If you are connecting the two it sounds as if you are mulling things over. Try to focus your mind on now and the future. You can't change what's happened as it's gone now but you do have the power to impact things now if you get what I mean. Don't let this ruin your happiness.

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