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Is it just me?

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Markygirl1995 · 15/04/2018 10:28

Since falling pregnant straight after a miscarriage me and my partner haven't had sex. I'm not overly keen as I'd hate risking anything! It's not like I don't give him anything though (oral BJ and hand job) because I feel bad because I'm to scared to give it all. Recently I've noticed that he doesn't get sexual with me, doesn't kiss me or hug me I have to ask for it which I don't think I should? we were joking around this morning took the remote he took my phone so I took his out just joking around he just got so protective trying to get it back in rush however I wasn't overly fussed he had mine. When he shows me things which isn't very often on his phone he doesn't even let me hold it... he has cheated on me in the past with his ex and kept going back to her as far as I'm aware he hasn't for 2 years - what's everyone's thoughts should I be worried? I've just tried talking to him but he had ago at me for always wanting love and attention that's only because I see him only on weekends because we don't live together I don't know what to think 😔

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aetw · 15/04/2018 11:28

Op sounds like you’ve got a lot going on here. I just wanted to say has you tried telling him how you feel about his coolness or just stating that you have noted a shift? You could say that you are worried after the last time he had a go?

surreygirl1987 · 15/04/2018 11:45

Oh gosh. I've been there. Not while pg though. My instincts were right and he WAS cheating on me (the ex). The phone thing ia often a telltale sign. But it also made me obsessive and paranoid and poisoned what was left of our relationship. I think you need to have a serious talk with him about how you are feeling but stay calm. You also need to know in your mind what you are prepared to do if he IS cheating again - would you leave him?
Sorry you're going through this!

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