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27+3 feeling crap!!

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Poppy1989 · 11/04/2018 20:35

So emotional.... fed up of being uncomfortable lately, having such bad stomach ache, no sleep at night and waking up feeling like my bones can't handle it all.

Generally feeling so fed up and down about it all now. Everyone keeps saying "it's going to get worse" and thanks for the honesty but right now it just makes me cry more!

I have had bad gas for a day or so... want to eat nothing but crap that's quick and easy! And getting half way up the stairs to pee every 15 mins is making me want to pee in a bucket downstairs!

Has anyone else felt like this?! Stomach ache and feeling miserable?
It's like a gassy/haven't ate enough in a day sort of feeling!

Don't want to cry... but here we go again 😐😢😩

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Aw12345 · 11/04/2018 20:55

I'm not even as far as you (23 + 4) but feel the same. Hate the crying and feel really low about how long I have to go :-(

Also find it very unhelpful when people undermine how you feel by saying 'it's only going to get worse'... makes it more depressing.

Used to be a balanced human being but today I have cried about needing to charge the car (its electric), forgetting my log on details to get into a website, the food shop and the dog barking. Also hate the guilt... feel very sorry for DH who is very kind and has to put up with me!

On the peeing front... I was peeing that often at one point and had no other symptoms but it was actually cystitis... just a thought :-) maybe see if GP will look at a urine sample?

Poppy1989 · 11/04/2018 21:05

@Aw12345
So glad I'm not the only one who feels like this!
My partner is being so good to me aswell.... even though the more hugs he gives, the more I cry also! I have to find that funny! 😂

Iv looked online and seen people saying the pain and aching bones is from ligaments moving and stretching. Doesn't make it any easier though! Sooo annoying to feel so rough!

I had terrible sickness for the first 12 weeks.... and now to feel like this again is making me feel more down about things.

Just want things to go smoothly!

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Aw12345 · 11/04/2018 21:28

It is very good to have a supportive partner (though that makes me feel guilty because I feel sorry for him living with me atm!).

Have also had bad sickness and nausea, and absolute exhaustion that accompany them. The feeling like you haven't slept for a week even after 12 hours sleep. Do you have meds?

The worst thing is feeling like my whole personality has gone... I'm just getting through each day atm, don't have any energy for anything I used to enjoy. :-( can't wait for this pregnancy to be over!

Poppy1989 · 13/04/2018 09:19

@Aw12345

Iv been having warm showers or a bath at the end of the evening to try and relax myself now. Iv looked into swimming to stay calm and fit but haven't found the confidence to go yet!

Feeling the weight of the bump now and my groin and pelvic area is sore everyday now.
Seeing midwife next week, but she hasn't been helpful yet! So not expecting great advice this time!

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liveinthemo · 13/04/2018 10:24

I'm 27 +3 today and I feel exactly the same! Also getting mild period like cramps which is just driving me crazy. I feel like I could sleep forever at this rate! Constantly uncomfortable 😢

Poppy1989 · 13/04/2018 11:18

@liveinthemo

Today I'm 27+5
Been up most of the night with more stomach ache, back ache ect 😢

Feeling super emotional again that I have no energy or Motivation to want to go out at all. Want to hind away!

Getting more worried as I have to have my whooping cough jab next week and everyone keeps telling me how bad it hurts! My anxiety is sky high and I have no one who can come with me to calm my nerves x

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liveinthemo · 13/04/2018 11:20

I had the whooping cough vaccine the other week and I'm petrified of needles but I promise you it's not as bad as what people say! You will be okay.
Oh it's awful isn't it. I have such an iffy stomach today and just can't see how I'm going to get through the next 12 or so weeks!😢it's exhausting

Poppy1989 · 13/04/2018 11:37

@liveinthemo
Thank you that makes me feel better knowing it's not that bad!
Dodgy stomach... I have that most days now too! Either can't go... or can't stop going 🙄😢
A lot of people keep telling me "still got a long way to go" 12 weeks does seem like ages but hearing it doesn't help does it.

I wish that I could make it go a lot smoother with No aches and pains for us all. It makes me worry incase it gets worse over the next few months too! X

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liveinthemo · 13/04/2018 12:31

People have too much to say lately imo haha either that or I'm just cranky at every little thing!! Everything seems to get on my nerves and irritate me! Wish I could just feel comfortable again. So out of breathe doing the slightest bit of housework knackers me.. feeling very sorry for myself😂. Hopefully we will start to feel that 'glow' soon but I'm losing hope x

Poppy1989 · 13/04/2018 13:28

@liveinthemo
Hmmm still trying to find the glow too! Fingers crossed for us both! X

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CremeDeSudo · 13/04/2018 13:47

Hi Poppy I'm 27+5 too! Also completely fed up (I basically come on MN to moan these days Grin). SPD and back pain here. An unbelievable amount of pressure all across the front and bottom of my bump. I think its where she likes to chill out! I really don't like being pregnant at all. Can't wait for it to be over. I think I had pre-natal depression with DS as I used to come home most days and cry! DS is now 4.5 so I don't have time for feeling sorry for myself this time round! Also, this time I know how worth it it all is. Smile The WC jab is fine, don't panic about it! X

CremeDeSudo · 13/04/2018 13:57

Also I really can't stand people who point out that it 'gets worse'!

I remember when DS I'd been so fed up of feeling depressed I went out and bought myself some new shoes. I came back into work all pleased with myself and announced that I'd bought them to cheer myself up as there was no point buying clothes atm and one lady felt the need to tell me that my feet would swell up and might never go back to normal! Wtaf? Stupid woman. (For the record, they didn't really swell up until right and the very end and they DID go back to normal thank you very much!)

I also get irrationally irritated when people as me how I'm 'feeling'. I don't mind them asking how I am, how I'm doing etc, it's just something about being asked how I'm 'feeling' specifically. Shit. I feel shit. Thanks for asking. I know I'm being unreasonable! I've started responding with just 'large' now.

You've started me on my rant now... lol

Aw12345 · 13/04/2018 15:45

Honestly if you can survive pregnancy this far the you'll find the WC vaccine absolutely easy!

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