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Fiancé left me

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unicorncow · 25/03/2018 23:23

Can't believe I'm writing this, I thought things were really good between us but he's walked out today, he doesn't get to see his mates enough apparently, although he goes to their house at least twice a week! I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant with a little boy, I'm totally devastated and can't believe I'm having to do this alone! 😢 oh and he told me through text that he was going to come and collect his clothes and stuff after leaving the house 6 hours earlier saying he needed time and space!

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MagicalCreatures · 25/03/2018 23:31

Oh love I’m so sorry.

Is there any chance he’s just over reacting about something and he’ll be back in the morning like nothing happened x

KirstenRaymonde · 25/03/2018 23:33

You poor thing. What an absolute tosser. Is he 15? Walking out on his pregnant fiancée because he doesn’t get to see his mates enough?! Is he usually so immature?

Bluebirdsky · 26/03/2018 17:39

That sounds awful; is it possible he will calm down and realise that he is over reacting? Not that you should be treated in this way though but maybe he is just feeling a bit overwhelmed by it all? X

FranticallyPeaceful · 26/03/2018 17:41

Sounds like he’s having a teenage meltdown.

I’m sorry this is happening, but imagine how embarrassed he’s going to feel when people ask why he left his pregnant Mrs

unicorncow · 26/03/2018 18:48

Thanks for your messages, he was the one who asked to try for this baby and he asked me to marry him on Christmas Day, everything was going so well so this is totally out of the blue! He's not even replying to my messages! I was so looking forward to the 20 week scan and now I'm going to be so sad going without him, my friend is coming and she's bringing her partner, I'll have to bring my 4 yr old son too, that's another reason I didn't want him there, it's too upsetting because my son got so close to him 😢

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Bluebirdsky · 26/03/2018 22:40

Sorry that you are going through such a rubbish time @unicorncow
I know it doesn't feel like it right now but maybe you are better off without him if he can treat you in this way and show so little regard for you and the baby.

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