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Should I stay with him?

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Tipsygypsy1123 · 25/03/2018 19:09

We have been together for almost a year and I'm 4 months pregnant. We live together but we have an almost non existent relationship. I don't have a job, but I am looking. It's difficult because I'm exhausted and the doctor had me stop my medications for the baby. My boyfriend is constantly yelling at me for not having a job and not having money. We RARELY are intimate, cuddle, etc. He shows little affection towards me and sleeps on the couch every night while I'm in our bed. He's turned into such an angry person, I constantly feel on edge. Although he says he loves me and is excited for the baby I don't see it. If I leave I don't have a good place for the baby, me, and my dog to live. Any advice??

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Fidgety31 · 25/03/2018 19:22

Maybe he is anxious about having to support you and a baby financially
How do you discuss this with him ?

Sounds like you need to do a lot of talking about the problems and how you are both going to work with them

Getting a job at this stage will probably be harder than if not pregnant but if you are open to any work then I am sure you can find something.

ClareB83 · 25/03/2018 21:26

Short answer to your question is: no, you should not stay with him. He is constantly yelling at you, that's a toxic relationship, get out now.

Unfortunately it seems you're going to have to take some steps to get out of this in terms of finding somewhere to live etc. I would say contact your local council, Shelter and the job centre for some advice.

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