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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Stretch marks...

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LadyGray17 · 19/03/2018 14:10

I'm 31 weeks with my first and looking in the mirror I've noticed more and more stretch marks appearing on my hips, thighs, boobs and most recently tummy and I don't know how to deal with them.

I have sensitive skin so I have had to moisturise after bathing all my life so creams are already a part of my daily routine. I've used bio oil but it did nothing to my scars or existing (exercise caused) stretch marks.

I've read that you either get them or you don't and it can depend on your genes, but I'm the first in my family to get stretch marks in pregnancy. I showed my mum the worst ones and she was in shock.

I have gained a lot of weight, but have neither been eating more (actually struggling to eat most meals nowadays) or been less active than I was prior to pregnancy. I was a size 8 but am now having to borrow size 16/18 tops from my mum and mum-in-law just to cover my bump. I was also flat chested until pregnancy boobs appeared and the marks there were the first to appear. Both my partner and I were big babies, so there is no doubt this one is going to be the same.

I hate the way they look but can 't seem to stop them despite moisturising daily and drinking more than I feel capable (drinking water makes me want to gag). It's got to the point the that I'm no longer looking for treatment and instead looking at tattoos that will cover them completely. I can't afford all these fancy creams, even bio oil was expensive in my view.

Is there anything I can do? I want to be able to look at myself and not feel sick. My boyfriend says there's nothing wrong with them, but I don't like the way they look at all...

Why am I getting them when it's not in my genes and I had already been moisturising years prior to them appearing? Is it because of how skinny I was? Or am I just really unlucky? :(

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SeeKnievelHitThe17thBus · 19/03/2018 14:17

I have them from when I was a teenager and had a growth spurt, but oddly not from pregnancy. I hate them too.

I found that Palmers (the cocoa butter people) stretch mark cream worked much better for me than Bio oil and it didn't mean walking round in your skimpies for 10 minutes whilst it soaked in and was much cheaper.

Maybe have a consultation with a local beauty place - google stretch mark removal. I think you can laser fresher marks off, although obviously not when pregnant, but you're stuck with longer standing marks. Sad

Muscle tone makes them look slightly less dreadful so try and exercise once the baby's here.

Fidgety31 · 19/03/2018 14:20

Creams won’t stop them
It’s down to your skin type
I got loads - they do fade with time

Herculesupatree · 19/03/2018 14:29

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