Prenatal depression

[Souldestroying]

With my first I was so excited and couldn't wait to go out and start buying everything but I'm 12 weeks with my second and I've got none of that. When I had my scan to be totally honest I weren't that bothered they said every thing looks fine. After the scan I just wanted to get out of there. It makes me feel so guilty. Will this happen all the way through ? I feel like I'm not going to love this baby or get attached like I did my daughter. Does it get easier ? Has anyone got any advice for me x

I've got zero experience but lots of people worry they won't love their 2nd like they do their 1st but they do when baby comes!

Following actually as I was the same with DD. Have pcos so was told I couldn't have children so do think my DD is my little pcos miracle. I have my 12 week scan on Tuesday and I'm feeling the same way about baby #2. I think though, it's cos I've done it all before and I'm so preoccupied keeping busy with DD I don't have time to be excited about anything 🤣

I'm 7 months pregnant with my second and I don't have the same excitement as I did first time round. I'm starting to worry and stress about how hard it will be as I've got a 20 month old and my husband now works away. My husband works away now and I just don't have the support I did first time round. Is there any other reason or change in circumstance that could be causing you to feel different? Sometimes hormones can cause havoc in the 1st trimester too then things start to settle a bit in the 2nd.