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Anyone know how to request a new midwife?

33 replies

Tinks15 · 13/03/2018 20:33

Fed up with mine she's useless never responds to my messages, she only ever responds after I've had to text her two or three times to prompt her - its frustrating as not really what I should have to do.
Previous midwife i had a few years back was so quick to respond to my messages & always came across like she was there for me just getting annoyed with this one!

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Anotherdayanotherdollar · 13/03/2018 21:54

Does your midwife work full time? Perhaps she only works 2-3 days per week and gets back to you on her next shift?

Bonge · 13/03/2018 21:57

Sorry, I know this sounds really silly but I do have to ask as I'm a FTM with no clue:

Do you have a specific midwife? I just see whoever is working at the time for my appointments? I am under Standard Care, does this make a difference? I'm just intrigued that's all :)

Lilonetwo · 13/03/2018 22:04

You need to remember that the number your MW gave you is her work number- so she will only be able to reply while she is on duty. If she is part time it might only be 15-20 hours a week depending on her hours.

Also i haven't ever texted my midwife. I think stick to phoning her.

Tinks15 · 13/03/2018 22:04

Good point Anotherday I don't actually know Blush.

Bonge yes I have a specific midwife it might be different in other areas of the country though.

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Clevs · 13/03/2018 22:17

My midwife has given me her (work) mobile number and told me she welcomes texts. She’s normally pretty quick to respond as well. I’ve called her once and left a voicemail and she’s called me back. I don’t text her willy nilly though, just things she’s asked me to keep her updated on. It’s much easier than trying to get a message to her through the receptionists at my surgery.

jcsc · 13/03/2018 23:28

My midwife texts me all the time and has a voicemail stating don't leave a message send a text instead!
Done all jump down the OP throat, is be miffed if I didn't get a reply.
Obviously if it was urgent I would call the numbers she highlighted at the front of my notes.

Saz1995 · 14/03/2018 06:13

Pretty worrying she needs prompting to respond to you, my midwife was the same so in the end I asked for someone else. Good luck x

gussyfinknottle · 14/03/2018 07:00

Don't expect health visitors to be any better. The team I was given were shit. One even lied about calling me on my notes. I waited in all day for her, phone at the ready (even took it to the loo Blush), no call. My notes said she did.
What a shit system.

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