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35 weeks pregnant this Friday and bf walked out.

6 replies

xTTCTamsterx · 01/03/2018 01:16

What the title says really. I'm totally confused and hurt. How will I manage now? I didn't want to be in this situation again (I have a 6year old DD who I raised alone) already. Was it something i did maybe? He said he's sick of me making accusations, this is because he's seemed distant for a while so I asked if he was going off me or something. (I asked for a cuddle but he said he wasn't in the mood) He won't answer my calls or a anything and I've not got a clue why he's left me. Anybody else been in a similar situation?

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Mummblebee · 01/03/2018 05:20

I'm so sorry that he's done this to you and at this late stage in pregnancy. It's very selfish and immature. I would say not to contact him, because you do not need any unnecessary stress. I am 36 weeks pregnant today and have had no support emotionally, physically, or financially from the babies father, so I know how you feel. It's a shame that this happens to so many women through pregnancy. You are not alone. Stay strong for baby and your 6 year old lion mama. Good luck Flowers xx

Aw12345 · 01/03/2018 11:21

You poor thing, what an absolute knob. At this point in your life he should be caring for you, getting you snacks, getting something to put your feet up on.

Knob.

So sorry for you :-(

xTTCTamsterx · 01/03/2018 21:00

I'm devastated, he reckons he can't put up with me anymore. Hes blocked my number so now I have no way of contacting him. Life seems so unfair xx

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BlueTowel · 01/03/2018 21:04

Ask mn to move this thread to relationships.

Without knowing anything else, this doesnt sound like the kind of relationship that you deserve because your dp sounds horrible.

heatherxo · 01/03/2018 23:42

Not quite the same...
But my dh just went to prison last week, and I'm due in 10 weeks.
Yes, it's his own fault, etc, but I'm 22yo with an almost 3yo and I'm absolutely terrified of being alone!
He's been left untried until April 24th, when he will most probably get at least 3 months, most probably more.. baby is due May 11th 😭

LauraO1905 · 02/03/2018 07:20

I'm sorry this has happened to you, how awful and cowardly of him.

You have raised one child as a single mum so you are obviously strong and capable, so you can do it again! I'd spend the next few days just with yourself and your DD and just think about life without him. Then if he comes crawling back (which I suspect he probably will!) you can make an informed decision as to whether you actually want him back in your life or not.

Good luck xx

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