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Longing to be pregnant, everything is getting to me

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UNIMUM2415 · 05/02/2018 14:27

I always dreamed about having a child in my twenties, and in some aspects i have. I met my partner when our little boy was 2 months old and i have raised him as my own, he is now nearly two, i absolutely love being a mummy and love him more than anything in the world.
However I'm now craving pregnancy. All our friends and family members are having kids and I am finding it really hard to deal with. Ive even had to delete mum pages on social media as it can be too much for me. I'm constantly having pregnancy related dreams, but i told my partner they stoped, as i fear it was becoming annoying. I just do not know what to do to combat my emotions.
Any advice much appreciated.
Ps. I am in a same sex relationship so it's not like i can go out and get pregnant, it will need planning.

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ClareB83 · 05/02/2018 14:29

Talk to your partner and discuss when and how you can have a child.

juneybean · 05/02/2018 14:29

Can you not try with a known donor from coparents.co.uk? Does your partner want another?

UNIMUM2415 · 05/02/2018 14:32

See the thing is i know that we need to wait a while and im fine with waiting, but it just how do i deal with the fact it is constantly on my mind, how do i try not too think about it when pregnancy is everywhere

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juneybean · 05/02/2018 14:36

Can you make changes to get yourself ready for pregnancy so that you at least feel like you're working towards it?

UNIMUM2415 · 05/02/2018 14:39

I guess, i never really thought about, i just feel like I'm not getting any younger and stuff as well

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Julia855 · 05/02/2018 17:30

Hi Unimun2415! umm you're kind of in a complicated situation. Being in a same sex relation shouldn't stop you from being pregnant again. Honestly, wanting to be a mother is just a natural instinct you cannot just control it. If you are wanting to be pregnant again you should go ahead and talk to your partner there are so many options that you could go for. I pray for your happy future.

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