Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

Set a reminder

Please or to access all these features

Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Is it normal to feel emotional before your due date?

9 replies

AnxiteyForever · 27/01/2018 17:31

I'm 2 weeks away from giving birth but I am SO emotional. I am not a crier at all and have cried and I mean really really cried 3 times this week. This is my 2nd child- conceived via clomid so very much wanted and I just have this over powering feeling of self doubt, I'm so tired, feel huge and I just feel so shit. I actually feel depressed. And then I feel guilty for feeling this way.
What is going on with me??

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
drinkyourmilk · 27/01/2018 17:34

I'd say you're nearing labour!

AnxiteyForever · 27/01/2018 17:38

Omg this would be amazing! However I feel dread and then think what if I don't love him? What if I can't cope with a newborn? I can't be bothered with my 50 million (feels like) family members wanting to come and visit

OP posts:
TiffanyAtBreakfast · 27/01/2018 19:27

I think this is just called Being Very Pregnant syndrome Grin your hormones are going crazy and you feel exhausted and crap. It's natural.

Twitchett22 · 27/01/2018 21:13

I've got 5 weeks to go and today I've found myself sat in the nursery by myself just looking around and crying. Just feeling overwhelmed and excited and nervous and everything all at once! And I'm not an emotional person at all! I'm putting it down to hormones but I don't know if it means labour is on its way or not!

ScottishProf · 27/01/2018 21:19

Totally normal. Good time to think about how to handle the post-birth visits, though, if you don't already have a plan. If you have a DP who will be able to be around, I'd suggest warning everyone who may visit that you'll want some time with no visitors once the baby is here, and will let them know once you start feeling able to cope with visitors. Don't feel bounced into having loads of people on day 3! How you feel in the event is really hard to predict, but at least don't commit to visitors until you know you want them! Rule of thumb to suit the average person might be "not before day 7".

ScottishProf · 27/01/2018 21:20

(If you don't have a DP who will be around, you might want to make exceptions for friends/relatives who can be trusted to arrive bearing food, help as asked, and leave when you need them to!)

cherryontopp · 28/01/2018 11:10

It must be cos i feel the exact same!

Im due Feb 9th and i feel like crying all the time. I thought it was lack of sleep!

Just want this to be over and see my baby Sad

KimmySchmidt1 · 28/01/2018 12:51

Sounds normal. Do feel free to sack off the family members at your leisure though.

faitheloise · 28/01/2018 19:23

My baby is due in 2 days and i broke down last night, cried so much, baby was very much planned but i now feel guilty for my 2yr old as i dont think she 100% understands that baby brother will be here any day and will be a huge shock to her and she will then have to share me. And im pooping myself for labour, because i know what’s to come! So yeah id say its normal haha

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.