I hate to slam anyone doing their job but my Midwife is useless, there’s no nicer way to put it. E.g She doesnt give me a pot to wee in at appointments and just puts ‘NAD’ as if she’s tested it. I have an anterior placenta and when she try’s to get the heartbeat it’s difficult for her, she usually gives up and says ‘he’s moving so it’s fine’ and puts a random number in my notes for his HB. So basically, she doesn’t fill me with any confidence.
Anyway I’m 39 weeks and noticed in my notes she hasn’t logged/ measured my bump since 33 weeks (it was measuring 33cm at that point)I’ve been worried about being small which I’ve mentioned to her, being much smaller this time than I was with my first. My bumps also very ‘firm’ I.e it’s all baby, I can feel him everywhere as opposed to my first where you could feel a ‘cushion’ (of water?)
I had the tape measure in my notes so measured my own bump this morning as I’m curious (first born was a whopper and always measured waay bigger) and no matter which way I’m doing it, and dp has done it, it’s showing 34cm which I know would be small for this gestation.
But I also know the tape measure method isn’t very accurate. I’m having a c section in a few days but now I feel worried... is this something to worry about or not? I last saw Midwife last Wednesday and have a pre op at the hospital tomorrow for my c section, is it not worth getting worked up over? If I call hospital about it there’s not much they can do is there? My Midwife isn’t working again till the day of my section.