Hi
I am nearly 8 weeks pregnant. I found out I was pregnant a couple of weeks ago which came as a huge shock as have a Jaydess Coil in place. I was bleeding on and off heavily so assumed the decision had been taken out of my hands but a scan revealed that not only was the coil in place, but the baby was too. I have a medical abortion booked for this Wednesday but I am beginning to have doubts.
The dad is aware and fully supportive. We have known each other for two years and both have 2 children each from previous relationships. Me and him started while he was married (I know, awful) and he left his wife only 4 weeks ago so it’s been a very difficult time and still a lot of uncertainty for the future as he has left her twice before and gone back.
All the negatives to this baby outway the positives but at the same time the negatives are all about the affect it would have on other people.
He has admitted to me yesterday that he would be lying if keeping the baby hadn’t crossed his mind and that while it’s sad it isn’t the right time for us.
I am still bleeding daily and the coil is still there. But baby is hanging on Still regardless of the crazy odds.
I am so confused now am just don’t know what to think or do. Any advice or experiences would help