I am very lucky to have had a very straightforward pregnancy, very low risk and no concerns.
Because of the low risk pregnancy I have chosen a home birth. This was discussed at my booking appointment and at several other antenatal appointments and the midwives have been very supportive of it throughout (the first actually recommended it).
Throughout the pregnancy I have declined certain tests. I fully understand the reason for those tests, and my midwife was happy with the conditions under which I would consent (eg any other indications of problems). It was made very clear that it's recommended for xyz reasons, but also that I had the right to chose.
Now, at 36 weeks, I'm being told that I can't book a home birth because I have refused these tests (with midwife still recommending it). I was asked to meet with the consultant to see if they would sign off on it. Consultant didn't understand why she was seeing me, because she only normally sees high risk patients which I'm not. But their policy means that she had to recommend a hospital birth, although she was very apologetic about this and wanted to help but couldn't.
So all the medical advice I have been given recommends a home birth (if this were not the case I would not have one). But the official recommendation is that I have a hospital birth.
Do you think that my choices with regards to antenatal testing should affect my ability to choose my of place of birth?
And, if so, at what point should I have been made aware of this?
And this isn't about whether or not people think I've made the right decisions, this is about whether or not I should be bullied into medical tests that I don't want.