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Missed miscarriage

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Cakelaur · 16/01/2018 23:09

Sorry if this is not the place to post this. I went for a private early reassurance scan. I should be 8+5. The baby measured 6+4 with no heartbeat.
This wasn’t an epu scan. Anyone know if it’s possibly a mistake? Or are all scans pretty accurate. Had it this evening at 8.30pm, so can call the Drs until the morning.
Any advice or previous experience of this would be much appreciated. A devastated, was to be, first time mama... just looking for some advice and support.
Thanks x

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loveacupoftea18 · 16/01/2018 23:21

Hi.

I'm so sorry to hear this. I had a similar experience and unfortunately it didn't work out well for me however i was told at the private scan clinic that I must be checked at the hospital to confirm as sometimes they can get it wrong.

I hope you are ok. I know it's a horrible night of worrying ahead. Is there anything else you want to know? X

Cakelaur · 16/01/2018 23:47

Hi @loveacupoftea18 thank you for you comment. To be honest I’m just a bit numb and not sure what else I need to know. I’m hoping my body realises I’ve miscarried and does what it needs to. Still in such shock. X

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loveacupoftea18 · 16/01/2018 23:50

Of course. Sending lots of love to you - be kind to yourself.

If it helps at all, even though the worst happened to me, I was lucky enough to fall pregnant again not long after my missed miscarriage and am now 30 weeks. X

Cakelaur · 17/01/2018 00:09

Congratulations. Amazing news. Sorry for your loss and fingers crossed you have a nice Easy birth in 10weeks! :)
Really appreciate your message. Even though my family and OH are so supportive I feel very alone. X

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louella99 · 17/01/2018 00:18

What a sad outcome for something that was supposed to provide reassurance. Thinking of you

PrimeraVez · 17/01/2018 05:05

Sorry to hear this cake, I had a very similar situation earlier this year and unfortunately it didn't have a happy ending (although I am now 19 weeks pregnant and so far, so good)

Definitely agree that the worst part is the waiting. You are in a horrible limbo and it feels so cruel. I kept saying to my DH that even if it was bad news, I just wanted someone to confirm it, so we could deal with it and move forward.

Thinking of you.

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