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Not coping with life right now. I don't know what to do.?

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Creamcheeseontoast · 11/01/2018 00:23

This may be long but will try to keep brief.

32 weeks pregnant..
Happily engaged to dp. Both have a dc already.

Since his ex found out I'm pregnant she's been more than awkward.. Trying to turn his dc against him etc etc.. The normal stuff.
He took her to court and won and got what he wanted, however, she hates this and the outcome and is doing everything in her power to make our life's a living hell.
Normally this wouldn't bother me but her latest tricks and lies is now resulting in dp being charge with something he didn't do.. All fabricated in her head.
Her exact words a few yrs ago were. I tylenol know do whatever it takes to get you out of dc life so I can have dc to myself.
She's obviously riddled with jealousy as he's happy and she's not..

Every week we collect his dc there's a drama of some sort. Whether that's a silly thing or more dramatic.

It's now consuming our lives.. She's playing on our minds all the time she somehow ends up being the topic of discussion whenever we see family and friends etc.

We had ttc for so long g and this should of been a happy experience however she's tainted it..in so many ways. She's vile.
Now we have the worry of the bullshit allegation she's making over hanging, awaiting a court date with a baby due in 8 weeks.

Due to all this. I literally have only eaten a slice of toast, one sandwich and a slice of pizza since Saturday morning. I'm so stressed I can't eat or ill be sick. I en had 5 nose bleeds in 3 days..

And all on top of the ovary pain.. Explained in another thread.

I'm. Done.. Im trying to be strong for dp as she's so evil to him.. His parents think I'm so amazing for putting up with it and that I'm a strong person but I'm broken. I really am.im laid next to dp who's asleep silent sobbing because I can't cope..

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Creamcheeseontoast · 11/01/2018 00:23

And the ovary pain has got worse so will need to ring midwife in morning once I've done school drop off.

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Creamcheeseontoast · 11/01/2018 00:25

will do not tylenol.. Don't even know what that is

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Mrstobe90 · 11/01/2018 01:27

Omg what a vile woman!

I’m so sorry you’re going through this :(

I’d make a record of every interaction you and your dp have with her, save every message and basically log everything.

If it continues, take it all to the police and get her charged with harassment. If that fails, get a restraining order.

Hope things turn around for you soon xx

Soon2bemum2017 · 11/01/2018 05:14

You will need a record of all the abuse etc from over the years to go to court with DH. Is the allegation fairly serious?

I think you need to talk to your midwife, not about the baby as you could literally eat nothing and the baby would be fine but about you and what help you can get. They will have heard this story a fair few times I can imagine and definately will have heard worse.

I hope everything turns out ok for you.

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