Hi. Please someone give me some advice. Since finding out I was pregnant on the 14th December, I’ve had nothing but problems. My HCG wasn’t rising properly (rising a maximum of 29% over 2 days but normally less) so was put on the risk list for an ectopic. They found something in my uterus measuring 5 weeks when I should have been 5+4 and I was told to return a week later.
I did. The sac had barely grown. I was told to return a week later, but to expect a miscarriage before then. I had more bloods taken and then I was called in for an emergency scan because My HCG was still rising too slowly. The nurse had me panicking for a while. She said the thing they thought was a sac in my uterus was just a ball of fluid and she couldn’t locate the pregnancy. So started saying it was ectopic.
Then a specialist had a look and confirmed the thing in my uterus was a sac but it was still empty. I should now be 7+3 weeks and it’s still measuring 5+4 weeks.
I’m so angry though because I’ve accepted that this pregnancy isn’t meant to happen. And now I just want it to be over and to be able to move on. But this specialist has requested I now wait another 2 weeks before he will scan me again to confirm and terminate.
Even though he said my hormones indicate a non viable pregnancy.
He also wouldn’t listen to me when I told him I was exact on my dates and that the sac measured the same 2 weeks ago as it did today so why do I have to wait another 2 weeks. My mum thinks it’s because they want the pregnancy to end naturally but I feel no cramps or any signs of miscarriage and My HCG is still rising slowly.
It’s my husbands 30th birthday the day after my next appt and we’re going away for a couple of days and I’m concerned that if they wait til then to terminate the pregnancy that I’ll be too poorly to go. And I can’t wait til after we get back bin pulling my hair out and don’t know what to do. Do I have a choice in the matter?