When can I stop worrying.

[Helen290]

Hi, I am 6 weeks + 3 days I had my first scan yesterday as I'm under fertility due to a mc back in October, and it was perfect baby was I the right place and a heart beat present I felt so relieved and I am booked again in 2 weeks for another scan, I felt good yesterday however today I'm worrying again. It's just so hard to relax i worry so much about having an MC again as I know you can have silent ones with no symptoms, I want to be excited about being pregnant but I just don't feel I cant yet as it feels like it would tempting fate if I do, I know if it happens nothing I can do about it but I just can't bare the thought of another MC.
I just wanted some kind words or advice? To try and elevate this worry 😔. Feels so far away for my 12 week scan.

What your feeling is natural and even the most chilled out mums to be have a wobble or two. I felt better after each scan for a bit and then worried again. Then when baby moves I felt a bit more reassured but worry when he’s not moving as much. You’ll have ups and downs but for the majority of people it works out ok. X

I think worrying is just a part of the whole pregnancy package, even at 26 weeks i still think the worst is going to happen.

I am due on Friday and I have not stopped worrying!

Just so hard to enjoy it when I'm worrying a lot of the time, all I can do is hope everything will be ok 🙏🏻🙏🏻.

Worrying never stops.

But dont let it overcome you and spoil yoir pregnancy. What will be will ne. Worrying doesnt change the outcome
Enjoy it

I wish there was a magic wand to take away the anxiety after MC/mmc. I'm 15 weeks, had a mmc at 7 weeks Christmas 2016, I've had 2 good scans at 8 weeks and 12 weeks and I'm still absolutely petrified... Can't shake it... It sucks. I'm trying some anxiety meditation but not a magic cure. You're not alone, take one day at a time, keep busy, remember today you are pregnant... Stay as positive as you can but honestly I know it's easier said than done. Big hugs xx

Hoping is all any of us can do.
You will enjoy parts of it and other bits not so much. It’s not all bad, the good bits of pregnancy (baby scans, kicks, telling loved ones, doing the nursery etc) more than make up for the worry.

Thank you all it's helped hearing what other people think, Just sucks worrying I think I might feel a bit better after my 12 week scan 🤞🏻🙏🏻. Feeling so sick at the moment tho I haven't had chance to worry the last few days my morning sickness is all day sickness 🙈🤢😩.